Our card for the day, Wednesday, June 12th, is taken from the Magical Messages From The Fairies Oracle Cards – Assertiveness – “Stand up for your beliefs, and only say yes if you really want to.”
Okay this card actually works quite nicely with the one for yesterday. This one also deals with giving away our power. How many of us have a hard time saying no to someone and we then end up doing something we don’t want to do and that we are not happy about? Many of us are “people pleasers”, I know I am. I have a very hard time saying no and often end up in situations where I am far from happy. However over the past few months I have gotten better at saying no because there are some people and situations that I no longer care to be associated with or take part in, for my own sanity and well-being.
I often keep my mouth shut about my beliefs so as not to cause an argument or to be laughed at. However there is a time and a place for standing up for our beliefs. Being assertive doesn’t mean forcing our way of thinking or believing down someone’s throat. It doesn’t mean that they are wrong and we are right. There are many paths that lead home and mine is just one of them. If someone wants to hear what I believe about a certain thing then I will share it and sometimes I will even open up a conversation about something I believe in. However I give the other person plenty of time to talk about their beliefs, and if it looks like the other person doesn’t agree and is trying then to bring me around to their way of thinking, I will just say “we are all entitled to our beliefs” and leave it at that.
All that being said however, from many of my sources, events are about to be set in motion that will forever change the way we live on this planet. It’s going to be hard for many to deal with, to find out that what they have believed to be true for all of their lives isn’t true at all. They are going to be looking for answers and that is where our speaking our truth will come into play. Being Lightworkers and Wayshowers means we step in and give help to those that will be in need of it when that time comes. We tell them what is happening and why and let them see there is nothing to fear but fear itself. What is happening is happening so that all on this planet can live in peace and love and abundance.
So be assertive as it is called for and remember to only say yes if you really want to! Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~
Artwork taken from the Magical Messages From The Fairies Oracle Cards, Assertiveness, Artist: Marius Michael-George