Our card for today, Sunday, May 18th, is taken from The Psychic Tarot for the Heart Oracle Deck by John Holland – # 5 Feeling Alone – Key Words: Lack, Abandoned, Insecurity and Support.
Red Border symbolizes: passion, romantic love, enthusiasm, boldness, vitality, power, confidence, courage, and anger. Red is associated with the Base Chakra. (The Psychic Tarot for the Heart Guidebook)
The number 5 represents: freedom, transformation, sensuality, desire, change, resistance, uncertainty, inconsistency, and sadness. (The Psychic Tarot for the Heart Guidebook)
Many of us feel alone without a partner. Love is the driving force in most of our lives, the need to love and be loved in return. There can be no doubt that love is the motivation for many of the things we do, the thoughts we think and the desires we have. When all survival needs are met, like food and shelter and so on, the thing that people look for is love.
However when we find ourselves alone, perhaps a relationship ended for some reason, we feel dejected and afraid we will never find love again. Whatever the reason we find ourselves in this position, this is a time of taking stock of our lives. Discovering who we are and what we want in our lives should be the focus of this time.
Often in a relationship we lose ourselves in our love for another. We change who we are to align ourselves with them, to be someone they will find interesting and who they will love. We all do it. So when we do find ourselves without a partner for a time, it’s the perfect time to get to know who we are all over again. What do we like, what do we want to do, where do we want to go, and who do we want in our lives?
We can let ourselves get depressed over being alone or we can look at it as a grand adventure of self-discovery. We now have the opportunity to spend our time doing the things that make us happy, that we enjoy doing, and perhaps haven’t done in a very long time.
This is also a time of deepening our love for ourselves. If we don’t love who we are then we can’t expect someone else to love us either. This is why it’s so important to get to know ourselves and to love all the aspects of our being. Then when we are ready, the right person will come into our lives who will love us for all that we are, our authentic selves. Someone who is our perfect match, our soul mate.
Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~
Love✲ ¸¸.•*¨¸.☆.¸＊°˚ ˚
& Light ♫☯♪ ☼ AuroraLightStar
Artwork taken from The Psychic Tarot for the Heart Oracle Deck, Feeling Alone, artist: John Matson