Our card for today, Saturday, June 28th, is taken from the Whispers of Love Oracle Cards by Angela Hartfield – 17 Have Patience – “Love is patient and kind – always!”
17 represents: “The angels applaud you for staying positive and optimistic. They say that your optimism is warranted, as your affirmative thoughts are coming true. Keep up the good work, as you’re on the right path!” (Angel Numbers 101)
Those of us who are searching for our soul mate, or have found them but are not together, often get impatient with the process. Let’s face it, relationships are a process and the more spiritual the connection, the greater and longer that process seems to be. What we tend to forget is that our union is assured if we have the patience to let things unfold in their proper time. Instead we often try to force the issue or else we give up.
Before soul mates can come together, they both have to clear anything and everything within them that is not love. They also have to finish up any karma that they may have with someone else. That is not just for one of the pair of soul mates but for both. We often make the mistake of thinking that we have cleared up our own issues and we are waiting on the other to get with the plan, but that is not the case.
We are not meant to be just sitting around twiddling our thumbs waiting for our soul mate to get their act together, we are meant to do our own inner work so that when they are ready, we are ready also. We need to be the best possible person we can be so that when the union takes place, there will be little drama to play out as we have worked through our individual issues.
It is so easy to blame the other, our soul mate, for the split when things fall apart but truly there is no blame if we can see through the eyes of our heart instead of our ego or fear. When we are in a position of blame, then we have a tendency to say things we don’t mean that can have a devastating effect on our relationship, and can prolong the time till union occurs.
We need to be ever so vigilant with what we say and instead of letting our ego or fear have the upper hand in our communication with our mate, we need to come from that place of love that we feel for them. That same love that can’t be experienced with anyone else.
If we want to say what is on our mind, we need to find a way to do so that is not destructive. We can say things in a way that is nurturing and kind, and not mean spirited. It is better to not say anything in the heat of the moment, or when we are angry or hurt. We should wait till we have worked through our own emotions, and are calm and centered again, before we say anything.
This is often why we find that soul mates come together for a time and then split apart again, while one or both works through something that needs to be addressed and healed before they can come together again. It really is a dance. It’s easy to get disheartened and want to give up but if we are patient then the reward, the union, will be well worth the effort and the wait.
Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~
Love✲ ¸¸.•*¨¸.☆.¸＊°˚ ˚
& Light ♫☯♪ ☼ AuroraLightStar
Artwork taken from the Whispers of Love Oracle Cards, Have Patience, artist: Josephine Wall.