Our card for today, Wednesday, July 9th, is taken from The Psychic Tarot for the Heart Oracle Deck by John Holland – 2 Refusing to See – Key Words: Assess, decide, impasse, and honesty.
2 symbolizes: Balance, partnership, tenderness, consideration, receptiveness, collaboration, choices, opposition, and negligence. (The Psychic Tarot for the Heart Guidebook)
Indigo border symbolizes: wisdom, empowerment, personal insight, perception, problem solving, understanding, solitude and depression. Indigo is associated with the Third Eye Chakra. (The Psychic Tarot for the Heart Guidebook)
Sometimes it is hard to see the truth of a situation when we are so emotionally involved. Sometimes we refuse to see the truth because of what it might mean for us if we do acknowledge it. However turning a blind eye to what is going on doesn’t make it better or make it go away either. Sometimes the hardest thing we can do is to face the facts that are staring us in the face, and once we do, we should then be able to make the right decision.
What that decision is will be based on whether or not the relationship is serving us, or is it holding us back from becoming who we are meant to be. Sometimes we hold onto relationships that would be better if we let them go because we are afraid of being alone. Sometimes, no matter how much we love someone, we just can’t be with them any longer. It often happens that as one partner grows and expands, the other remains stuck in the same negative place. That may mean that we have grown beyond them now and this is especially true for those of us on the spiritual path.
As we grow and learn and embrace the love of our being, we also move away from lower vibrational activities and life styles, but our partner may remain stuck
in the same old ways doing the same old things they always did, with no understanding of the transition we are making. This can be difficult to be sure but there is nothing to be gained by us remaining in a relationship that no longer serves who we are becoming. Unfortunately we can’t drag our partners kicking and screaming into the new earth reality that we are now experiencing. That journey is theirs to make in their own way in their own time.
There is no doubt that many people are finding that they are having to leave relationships that they felt would last a lifetime, but it does get harder and harder to maintain a relationship with someone who refuses to see, or is afraid of, what is happening on the planet. I have seen this with friends and it is happening in my own relationship too. It’s sad when it happens to be sure, but on the bright side, when we let go of a relationship that isn’t serving us anymore, we make room for a new higher vibrational relationship to take it’s place.
So maybe it’s time we face reality and make the necessary decisions that will lead us to a more fulfilling relationship with someone who is on the same path we are. I’m not saying it won’t be hard but it will be worth it in the end.
Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~
Love✲ ¸¸.•*¨¸.☆.¸＊°˚ ˚
& Light ♫☯♪ ☼ AuroraLightStar
Artwork taken from The Psychic Tarot for the Heart Oracle Deck, Refusing to See, artist: John Matson