Our card for today, Monday, April 13th, is taken from the Healing with the Fairies Oracle Cards – Breaking Free – “Do you feel trapped in some life area? This card asks you to take the first step in freeing yourself from any unnatural restrictions.”
Sometimes in life we feel trapped by circumstances that we feel are beyond our control. One of these circumstances might be our job. Perhaps we are not happy in our work place, whether it is the task we are required to do or our co-workers that make our workdays so unfulfilling, we feel trapped because we need this job to keep a roof over our head and to pay the bills. Another circumstance we might feel trapped in could be our marriage or relationship with a significant other. Perhaps we are no longer happy or do not love our partner or friend like we used to. However now we are in it and we can’t see a way out without causing pain to that person, or our family, or even ourselves. These are just 2 examples of circumstances that we may feel trapped in. These are usually the biggest 2 but I’m sure there are others.
There are steps that can be taken to free ourselves from any situation or circumstance that makes us feel trapped and unhappy. We can begin by talking to the people involved like a co-worker that is very negative to see if we can help with whatever it is that makes them so unhappy, or we can take steps to find ourselves a new job or career. We can do this without having to leave the job we are in if money is a concern. Yes it is a hard time right now to find work, but if we ask our angels and God to help us find a more fulfilling job where we can be happy and make the money we need to meet our financial obligations, if we have faith that it can be so, then it will happen.
If we are unhappy in our relationship and feel unable to get out of it for one reason or another, then perhaps a talk with our partner to explain our feelings is in order. If that doesn’t work then perhaps dissolving the relationship is the only way. There are ways we can do this so that we cause only a minimum amount of pain to all involved. Again ask the angels and God for help and guidance on how to do this, and have faith that the guidance and help we need will come to us.
No matter what the situation or circumstance that makes us feel trapped, there is always a way out if we are willing to look for it. We need not give up our own happiness to keep the status quo. Sometimes all that is required is a new perspective on the situation. If we can find a way to add some things that we know will bring us joy in the situation, or change some of the things that make us unhappy, including our own perspective of the situation, then perhaps it can be salvaged and we can be happy again. If not then we must give ourselves the permission to break free.
If we are unhappy then all those around us are very aware of our unhappiness. Is it worth remaining unhappy and making those around us unhappy too to remain where we no longer belong? No it isn’t, because to remain in that situation being unhappy certainly isn’t in our highest good or the highest good of all involved. We have to do what is best for us, and in doing so, find a way to also make it better for all involved.
Affirmation: “I am free, and I am powerful. I now allow myself to enjoy this freedom and power.” (Healing with the Fairies Oracle Cards Guidebook)
Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~
Love✲ ¸¸.•*¨¸.☆.¸＊°˚ ˚
& Light ♫☯♪ ☼ Aurora & Star Twin
Artwork taken from the Healing with the Fairies Oracle Cards, Breaking Free.