Our card for today, Thursday, July 9th, is taken from the Angel Answers Oracle Cards – Compromise.
As we saw with our card for yesterday, sometimes for a situation to improve we may be asked to make a compromise. It takes two people to work through the issues in any kind of relationship, be it romantic, or work, or family, or friends. And we saw yesterday that the situation we find ourselves in will improve as long as we are willing to put in some hard work, and also if we can reach a compromise. Remember that saying “nothing worth having comes easy” and the same is true when it comes to relationships. Many think that if it is true love, or true friendship, or any other relationship we are involved in, that it should be easy.
Sometimes I think we look at relationships like a fairy tale, we meet, fall in love, and it’s happy ever after. Wrong! If we go back and look at those fairy tales that promise happy ever after, the prince and Cinderella, or Snow White, or whatever heroine we may choose, had to fight against incredible odds to be together. And so it is the same with our own relationships, if it’s worth having, it’s worth fighting for. We may not have to fight dragons, or evil queens, or wicked witches, but we have to fight our own egos many times in relationships, and we often want to have things our own way. And if we can’t have things our own way, we often stamp our feet like children and push the person or people we love most away.
So in a way our own egos are very much like the wicked witch or the evil queen, and we often must fight ourselves, and our need to be right, and to have things our own way in order to have our own happy ever afters. But remember, if the relationship is what we truly want, then we must be willing to find a way to come to an agreement where both our partner, or friend, or family member, or co-worker, and ourselves both win. It all depends on how important it is for us to have our own way or if we want to keep the relationship. That is the bottom line, and if having a healthy, successful, and beautiful relationship is what we truly want, then we will find a way to make the situation a win-win for everyone involved.
Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~
Love✲ ¸¸.•*¨¸.☆.¸＊°˚ ˚
& Light ♫☯♪ ☼ Aurora & Star Twin
Artwork taken from the Angel Answers Oracle Cards, Compromise.