Our card for today, Wednesday, November 4th, is taken from the Healing with the Fairies Oracle Cards – Family Harmony – “Your relationships with family members are healing. As you hold loving thoughts and feelings about the souls involved (including yourself), you experience genuine harmony within your family.”
As Lightworkers and empaths, most of us were born into family situations that were less than ideal, and it was worse for some of us than others. However, this card is asking us to try to put our differences aside and find the goodness in each other, and the love that we feel for each other despite, or in spite of, our failure to see eye to eye on some things. Something I have heard a few times is that everyone is doing the best they can with the knowledge they have at the time. What we need to remember also is that long before we were born into our families, we sat with these souls and created contracts with them, roles we would each play for each other, who would be the mother, father, sister, brother, grandparents and so on. We agreed to play other roles as well, like who would be the trouble maker, or who would be the victim, or who would be the abuser, who would love and protect us, and who would betray us, and the list goes on and on.
When we are in the midst of family drama, we lose sight of the fact that we have had many lifetimes with these particular souls, we have been the mother, father, sister, brother and grandparents, many times, we have changed roles so that all of us could experience what each role was like and the many dramas that could be played out. When we are on the other side, these souls are our most beloved friends and family no matter what roles we take on to play out for each other in this lifetime or in other lifetimes. We forget that the reason we come here is to experience life in all its facets, the good, the bad, and the ugly. This is how we grow as souls and how we learn that only love exists because everything that is not love is an illusion.
I know this is hard to wrap our heads around at times, especially if our childhood has been particularly traumatic, but it doesn’t change the truth of what I have said here. Anything that is not love comes from our belief that we are separate from each other and from God. So what this card is asking us to do, is to look at our families from the perspective of love and to try to remember that this life we are living and the experiences we have shared with these other souls is only a small almost infinitesimal portion of the eternity of our souls. We need to learn to forgive these people we are so close to and to let the past go as we look to a new future of peace and harmony in our own lives, in our families and in the world. Remember peace begins at home because if we can’t find peace and harmony with those closest to us, how will peace ever be found between peoples and countries where our cultures and beliefs are so radically different?
Affirmation: I see the goodness within each member of my family. My family life is harmonious and filled with love and joy.
Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~
Love✲ ¸¸.•*¨¸.☆.¸＊°˚ ˚
& Light ♫☯♪ ☼ Aurora & Star Twin
Artwork taken from the Healing with the Fairies Oracle Cards, Family Harmony.