Our card for today, Monday, July 25th, is taken from the Wisdom of the House of Night Oracle Cards – Love – “My child, my wondrous one, it is time to celebrate because love is calling to you to open your heart and receive my blessings.”
For those of us who have been waiting for love, for our Twin Flame or Soul Mate to show up, it is time to open our hearts wide and receive what is on its way to us, or what has already shown up but is still very new. We may be afraid of opening our hearts because of the pain of love lost in the past. However let’s remember that it wasn’t love that hurt us, it was someone who didn’t know how to love who hurt us. Hurt people hurt people and so we must keep in mind that the one we love has also experienced the loss of love in the past as well, and so they are coming to us with wounds of their own that need healing.
So as we come together we must keep this in mind, we are afraid but so are they, and so meeting your Twin Flame or Soul Mate is only the beginning of a journey that must first take us inside ourselves to heal our own wounds as they are triggered by the one we love. They will trigger us and we will trigger them bringing up anything that is not love which holds us back from giving ourselves completely to the love we have longed for our whole lives. This will take patience and understanding on both sides. This is what causes the “runner/chaser” phenomenon that is particularly prevalent with Twin Flames.
Now the question we need to ask ourselves is how deeply can we love? Instead of running at the first sign of “trouble”, can we instead stay in the relationship and talk to our partner about what it is we are feeling without blaming them for something. Speaking from experience, I know how hard this is to do. When you are in the thick of it, it’s hard to look at the situation objectively and see what is behind the actions or words our partners are showing us or saying to us. This is where keeping our hearts open and seeing through the eyes of love comes into play. If we can see what is happening in our partner and also inside ourselves and know it for what it is, that we are mirroring to each other what needs to be healed in us, then we are a lot closer to making these sometimes trying relationships work. I say “trying” because it does take work on both sides to make it work. If one runs rather than deal with their baggage and heal it, then it will take a lot longer to come into union.
So how open can we be? How much love can we give without placing conditions on it? Can we open our hearts and not only receive the love that is flowing into us, but also let love flow out of us to not only our Twin Flame or our Soul Mate but also to the world?
Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~
Love✲ ¸¸.•*¨¸.☆.¸＊°˚ ˚
& Light ♫☯♪ ☼ Aurora & Star Twin
Artwork taken from the Wisdom of the House of Night Oracle Cards, Love.