Why Telepathy In Love Is Never Great? by Spiritual Unite


I’m not sure that I completely agree with this, yes it can mean less communication in the “real” world, and I don’t think it will slow down our unions with our Twins. I believe that for me it has been a saving grace that I can communicate with my Twin Flame telepathically when we are not able to communicate for “real”. Sometimes his internet is down in the country where he lives, sometimes he’s sick or whatever and our “real” communication doesn’t happen for a few days or longer sometimes. BUT I always know that we have our telepathic communication and astral travel to help us through these times.

I won’t lock that door ever. I have done it in the past but I miss him then, I feel empty inside. I mean isn’t the whole point that these relationships transcend space and time? Telepathic communication doesn’t happen with other relationships very often, for me he’s the only one I have this with. So that is my opinion and you of course must use your own discernment and do what feels right for you. Much love! ~Carolyn~

Why Telepathy In Love Is Never Great?

So what is telepathy in love? Ever wake up in the morning, and all you do is just think about them? You spend your whole day wondering about them; you think of them whispering to you. A portal has opened to your heart and soul for this person to dwell in a place of safety.

Telepathic Love Can Threaten Your Inner Peace

There are days you get sick of thinking about them, but you rejuvenate the next morning like you had a great night in bed with them, you feel great. What happened? Your soul has traveled with your telepathic lover. But you still wonder where they are when you need them, and frustration gets to you, and you decide its time to end it. Telepathy in love can be frustrating.

There they are, like magic they appear on your computer or phone, asking how things are going. They promise things will be better and spend some time with you. They promise to make it up to you. You are excited again. That portal to your heart and soul has once again opened. There it is, two more months have gone.

It’s Time To Close That Portal For Good

Telepathy in love can be great sometimes but think of what you are creating, you are frustrated because this love can’t manifest itself in the physical reality, as long as you keep that portal open, you are giving your lover an easy escape out of the relationship. You are only allowing a connection in the dream or astral rather than real actions.

Closing The Door To Telepathy In Love

Steps To Close That Portal;

Imagine A Locked Door

At night time try and imagine a locked door to your soul, heart, and mind. In the morning you will be exhausted. The reason being your telepathic lover was banging on that telepathic door trying to get in all night.

You are saying to your telepathic partner that the telepathic relationship has ended, from now on its the real way. When you are refusing to have a telepathic link you are telling your lover to come to you in person if this relationship is ever going to work. Closing that door is tough love.

Does My Lover Know They Are In A Telepathic Relationship?

Most of the time your lover will never know they are astral traveling and connecting on a spiritual level. But they can be sure of that you will be there waiting for them. Intact there is no urgency for them to take action.

A soul merge happens when you are answering their telepathic call. Signs that your portal is wide open is when you dream, you hear whispers of conversation and the feeling they are merging with you, and often carrying them when you go places.

They Notice When The Portal Is Closed

Yes, they will see that the portal to your soul and mind has closed. They will start panicking, the feeling they are about to lose you. They won’t know why this is happening to them, and they will aggressively try to reach you by email or phone or even try to visit you. They feel abandoned because you have closed your heart, now they are taking action.

Telepathic love and sexual obsession are different because it’s of the physical world. There is not much spiritual drive in sexual fantasy. It’s simply of the physical gratification.

Telepathic love is a spiritual merge allowing you to feel and hear your lover as one. If your telepathic partner does not come into your life with any action, then they never will.


A Message to Lightworkers – June 23, 2017 by Caroline Oceana Ryan


This week, the Collective received a question from a Lightworker that millions around the world are grappling with.

I offer their answer here, and below that, another excerpt from their new book, Connections: The Collective Speak on Romance and Friendship.

[QUESTION] In regards to the chaos happening during this Ascension, I know that we are told to just be happy and allow others to have their experience, and that there are no victims.

At the same time, there are things happening, particularly in politics, that are so far from the norm.

I’m wondering what the balance is between acknowledging the chaos and fighting for what’s right, and simply tuning that out and focusing on our own happiness, as a way to raise the vibration and help everyone through our own joy.

I feel like it’s as if I’m looking down at my phone, and I’m going to look up and the world is going to be burned down around me. And I’m going to wish I had done something more?

[The Collective] Greetings! We are happy to speak with you today, dear ones. This is a powerful and important point, and well worth answering.

We would say, that each has her or his own path, and that the intuitive following of that path, as your higher self guides and directs you, is one of the greater forms of soul expression you will ever experience as a human being, particularly at this point on the current timeline.

So that while one person’s path might be to jump up and work for a nonprofit that serves Syrian refugees, another person’s might be to paint or write of a great vision of Peace.

Another’s might be to speak with persons of differing cultural viewpoints, to help them find a common ground they never knew could exist.

Another’s path might be to send waves of higher Light and Love to all who are struggling now, whether with inner or outer turmoil or both, so that they do not lose heart, and know that on a higher level, all is well.

That all is occurring according to plan, in the sense of Earth’s Ascension into higher dimensional life.

And so, there can never be one answer, just as there can never be one Ascension path.

What is there for you to do, that will aid a planet in turmoil? Only you can answer this, dear one.

We say to each of you, Where is your passion? What most intrigues and pulls you toward it, whatever it may be?

You will hear many say, “Theatre doesn’t help anyone!” Or “You may be a doctor, but you’re not the right kind.”

Allow No One to judge the path you are walking. It is only for you to discover and fulfill, and not for another (including your left-brain, logical aspect) to judge as adequate or inadequate.

You are here to fulfill that vision you had before incarnating.

And so, sit quietly with your team of Guides, Angels, and Higher Self each morning, and present this conundrum to them.

Say to them, “What did I come here for? You knew how the Earth would be struggling, at this point — the planet, and Her people. What did I specifically come here to do?”

Give them permission to send you their higher thoughts and solutions, which will pop up in your mind as if they originate from within your own heart-mind.

They will be filled with a special Light, and a feeling of rightness that other thoughts and ideas do not hold.

Also be aware of outer signs and symbols. Do not brush them aside.

When you hear or read a phrase that jumps out at you, that feels to be speaking to you, heed this as a higher wisdom reaching you.

Say, “Yes, I am listening. I am actively following the higher wisdom I am given. This is easy for me to do. And what follows is a sense of Peace of heart and mind, even in these trying days.”

And so dear ones, we send with this Message an energetic boost to aid you in your quest to remember with increasing clarity Who you are and Why you came, and to have the courage, even the Joy, to fulfill this.

Yes, these energies are enervating. And yet, they also open many portals and pathways for you to recall past lives, life in other dimensions and on other planets, and your true identity and soul mission.

Be of good cheer! These wheels you see turning are quickly aiding the presence and dominance of Divine Light in the Universe (on all planets, and not only your own).

They do not signal chaos, despite appearances, so much as a new Beginning.

The old must crack and crumble and give way before the new can be instated.

Allow this, as you allow the release of all in your that is no longer for your higher good.

And so — Namaste, dear ones! You are never alone.”

Copyright 2017, Caroline Oceana Ryan

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An excerpt from the Collective’s new book: Connections: The Collective Speak on Romance and Friendship
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From Chapter 7 – “On True and Authentic Partnerships”

[Question] My thirty-eight year relationship came to an end after deception and dishonesty. Even after that length of time committed to a relationship, I feel the separation was for my highest good.

When you speak of twin flames, does that mean your true, authentic partnership?

I am feeling through my spiritual growth that this relationship will become apparent to me very soon. A relationship of trust, support, and understanding, at a level I have never experienced before.

[The Collective] We would say, that the length of time you are with someone is not germane to whether or not you should remain with them. You may be with someone for only a few weeks or months, for example, and realize then that they are not for your higher good.

Or you may be with someone for nearly forty years, as you have been, and realize they are no longer for your higher good. That your paths are no longer on the same trajectory, and that now you must both move on in life.

This is not a matter of loss or “failure” or any other form of density. It is a matter of growth, of realizing what is good for you at this part of your path, and what is not. There need not be a sense of blame or betrayal or loss. You have chosen, on a higher level, to release your partner.

That would have come about in any event, from some situation contrived on a higher level to separate you, if not from your own inner decision.

Bless your partner and the situation, and the path that is leading you away from them. This is part of why you have come to this moment. You are here to experience the forward movement, the growth engendered from release, including (if you can) forgiveness of your former partner.

You are also here to know the joy of moving forward on your own, developing areas of your outer life and inner realization, and even your basic identity, including likes and dislikes that you were suppressing so as to keep things on an even keel with your former partner.

What you are asking for is a heart connection that originates consciously on a soul level.

Regarding your connection to your twin flame, what you share with them is a connection like no other. This is the truest and most authentic partnership you can know.

Though your connection with Creator God/Goddess or Source Energy is greater, your twin flame takes part in that connection with you. They are an aspect of Who you already are, and not the “Other” that so many Earth partnerships represent.

This is part of why you have released your long-term Earth relationship. It can no longer fulfill what you are asking for, which is a heart connection that originates consciously on a soul level.

But understand that your connection with your twin flame is already in place. There is no need to create it.

What is happening now is that you are becoming increasingly aware of that connection, which has existed for as long as your soul has existed.

One twin is the Feminine essence of the soul, the other the Masculine essence, and together they form a beautiful and unified Whole.

That wholeness is what you seek now—the even balance, the perfect integration. A symbiotic knowing and understanding of your twin, without one of you keeping any quiet corners hidden in shadow from the other.

We do not call it a “relationship,” for you do indeed relate to your twin flame, when you travel etherically to be with them in your sleep state each night, and on a higher level, all of the time.

But this is not the sort of “relating” you learned in third dimensional life. For one, your communication with them is telepathic and intuitive.

It is beyond words and their constricted meanings.

For another, you know each other to the point where explanations and expectations are not necessary.

You may be thinking, “In that case, why can’t I just speak to them telepathically in my waking hours?” and the answer is, you can! We encourage this in every Lightworker. In the channeling sessions our writer offers, we rarely need to request that a person’s twin flame come in to speak with them.

They are usually quietly present, in the background. At the mere mention of the twin flame, he or she immediately steps forward, more than happy to connect in a conscious way, and ready with a comment, reassurance, or an explanation their beloved has been looking for.

Most people do not realize that they can go into a meditation at any time and speak with their twin flame, without any special assistance, though that can be helpful at first.

The mind is not always able to grasp the reality of the twin flame existence, even if the heart feels it intuitively. Most think of a twin flame as an abstract idea.

That slows communication, because so many feel they are merely speaking to the air. You are not.

They hear you, and are with you at every moment.

So are all of us in the Collective, but your twin flame is with you in special ways that no one else can mimic.

When you speak of having a connection built on a level of trust, support, and understanding that you have never experienced before—this is indeed all part of your connection to your beloved twin. But these occur on a very different level than what you have been taught.

For one, “trust” is not a matter only of, “I trust you to keep my private comments confidential,” or “I trust you not to be intimate with anyone but me.”

It goes far deeper than that.

It is the sort of trust that means that if your very soul essence is challenged in some way, you will both throw every resource needed into aligning your soul with those higher forces in the Universe that will ensure whatever form of protection, wisdom, or inspiration is needed.

It means, “I trust you to provide me with complete honesty in all matters, and yet, complete kindness. I trust you to be my higher aspect, reflected back to me.

“I trust you to allow my creativity and self-expression their full, free rein, and to be joyful at the perfection you see in me. And I trust myself to give all of the same to you.”

True “support” is also far different from what you have been taught. You need no “support” from anyone, in the sense that you are weak or troubled or “have bad days.”

No such thing exists. Every single day on Earth is a miracle, no matter what it may hold. And your soul is more powerful than you can know at present, constantly in a state of becoming increasingly One with the higher Light frequencies of this Universe.

It is increasingly capable of experiencing, projecting, and of being Love itself.

You are never in need of support in the sense that you need someone else to be strong for you. That day will never come.

The support you seek is simply affirmation that the above is true—that you are “powerful beyond measure,” as the beautiful words from one dear Lightworker [Marianne Williamson] has noted.

And that your only real job is to glory in that, and to live it out as fully as possible, led by Love and its many demonstrations on your own unique path.

The “understanding” you seek is not a matter of, “Yes, I know what you mean.”

It goes well beyond what the mind is able to grasp in its limited way. It is a heart integration of all that you and your beloved have experienced, all that you both are, and all that you both are able to evolve into, while at each other’s side.

It is a shared experience that extends beyond inner knowing, into a sort of sensory connection with what your partner is experiencing, as well as what they know and feel.

Every romantic relationship you have on this Earth with anyone other than your twin flame is never quite what you are looking for.
And so the connection you seek is indeed well beyond any you have ever known with any other. That makes it not only invaluable, but utterly unique. You cannot duplicate it.

This is why every romantic relationship you have on this Earth with anyone other than your twin flame is not quite what you are looking for. And so now you will ask, “Then how do I meet my twin flame?”

As we have noted elsewhere, they exist on a higher frequency than you currently resonate with. Most people’s twin flames exist on a higher plane, and are not currently incarnate upon the Earth.

If you were on their frequency now, you would be able to see them in the room with you.

Yet they never leave your side . . .

Copyright 2017, Caroline Oceana Ryan

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Twin Flame Challenge: Change Your Energy to Fuel Your Union by Twin Flame Healers


Twin Flame Challenge: Change Your Energy to Fuel Your Union

We were recently at an Energy Psychology workshop with a focus on the energies of love…fascinating. The presenters (Donna Eden and David Feinstein) did an exercise that was quite impactful.

They invited a couple onstage, muscle tested them and did tapping (EFT) until they both tested strong energetically. They then asked the man to think of a complaint he had about his partner. He didn’t speak, he didn’t touch her, just thought of his complaint. After a few seconds of this, they muscle tested his partner (the energetic recipient of his complaint), and she immediately tested weak energetically. This is energetic truth in action, and we experience this all the time.

When Remi is upset with me, thinking negatively, I FEEL it (and of course, the same is true for him). Every time. No matter if we are in the same room or miles apart. Because we (and all twin flames) have a shared energy body (as Remi says, we’re a four-legged creature) our energy, every moment of every day, has a direct and very powerful impact on our twin flame. When he is upset or thinking negatively, my energy drops to a much lower vibration, and I must cope with that reality — and of course the reverse is true for him.

On the other hand, when we are thinking positively of each other and our union, our energy goes WAY up and we are able to teach, heal, learn, and be MUCH more who we came to be on this planet.

The same is true for you and your twin flame. You may not have the power to change what they are thinking, but you can absolutely use your twin flame energy to change the energy you both are experiencing.

One spiritual truth I’ve learned that has been life changing — the most powerful vibration wins. Not necessarily the most positive, the most powerful. As advanced souls, we tend to be empaths and therefore tend to be “vibrationally codependent” with those around us. Think of growing up in a family that did not resonate with you — like most sensitive souls, you probably energetically shifted yourself to fit in and avoid disapproval, negative attention, or abuse. As you grew up, you continued this habit — as a sensitive soul and twin flame, you aren’t built like many of the people on Earth, but forget why. We think we are strange and there must be something wrong with us, when the opposite is true (OK, we are probably all strange, but in a good way hehe).

We came to Earth to help transform the old templates and bring in the new, not to fit in. We do this by connecting with dysfunctional families and bloodlines in childhood, with the purpose of transforming them later in life, and thus being the pioneers and living templates of new paradigm living and relating we are meant to be.

So this pattern plays out with our twin flame. If they are in a lower vibration, we tend to vibrationally match them, which lowers the vibration of the shared energy field. The key is for the more positive vibration to become the most powerful, to reverse the stream. So here comes your twin flame challenge — changing your energy to raise the vibration of your union.

This week, notice the energy you are sending through the pipeline to your twin. When you think of him/her, are you thinking of all of the things they are or aren’t doing or being that upset you? Are you joining them in lower vibration (feeling depressed, anxious, lacking, etc.)? See if you can release this energy as soon as you notice it — bring it into your heart center and breathe. If you can’t let it go easily and go into your heart, try this: Lie down on the Earth or floor, facedown with your arms outstretched over your head, and give all of your complaints and negative thoughts to God/Spirit/the Universe. Feel them drain out of you. (This feels amazing).

When you are calm, sit up, and imagine your twin flame in front of you. Begin to appreciate all of the things you love about your twin flame. Imagine looking into his/her eyes and the connection you experience as souls. Imagine smelling their smell, breathing in harmony with them. Smile. Send them your love through your eyes and heart. Imagine cuddling their inner little boy or girl. The possibilities are endless — it’s your show! Use your imagination to bring your energy to a place of appreciation and compassion for all they are going through. If you have a hard time with this, ask a high being to help you (Kuan Yin, goddess of compassion, is wonderful for this).

To make this exercise even more powerful, visualize the Merkabah and ask for your souls to meet there. In the Merkabah, you can also ask for any obstacles to your union to be transformed, and ask for any parts of both of you that are currently not connected with the energy of your souls to be cleared of negative energies and brought up into the light of your soul.

They will feel this. All of a sudden, they might feel a warmth in their heart, or just feel better or lifted up. They might think of you, or have a good thought or memory, or feel you close to them in a very positive way. This is real transformational alchemy. It will change their energy no matter what they are feeling, and this fuels your union, every time.

This not only benefits your twin flame, but of course benefits you as it raises your vibration and energy, reminds you that you ARE in union already, and you can go there anytime. Plus it feels so damn good.

All twins are in union energetically all of the time, no matter the state of our 3D “relationship.” We are all going through the union process, we can’t stop or change that, but we have a great deal of power in HOW. We can do it the hard way, or the easier way. Why not choose easier?

Remember, ALL twin flames are here with a big mission, whether you remember it or not, to SERVE. It is much bigger than you. Please don’t waste too much of your time and energy going down in vibration — you have suffered so much on Earth already! Why not make it as easy and joyful as you can? Yes, you do have this power.

Make the decision to fuel your union, rather than your separation. Try this challenge, and watch what happens. Repeat daily <3.

© TwinFlameHealers 2015

Karmic Love Is Beautiful, But Painful: Phases Of A Twin Flame Relationship By consciousreminder


June 19, 2017

by Linda Goodman

AS WE ALL KNOW A Twin flame relationship is not all ‘perfect’, as one might expect, especially in the beginning (usually a few years)

After reading or hearing about twin-flames and their perfectly balanced energies, many people think it would be like a fairy tale, the you-find-your-twin flame-and-live-happily-ever-after kind of thing.

It is not.

It is a perfect relationship, but it needs some work from both the partners.

After having been separated from each other literally millions of years ago, both twin-flames(of all souls) went through a lot of pain and suffering… and gathered negative emotions in the process.
These take a while to get sorted. And this can be difficult at times.
But you’ll get through it… Love will take you there… And then the world is your canvas and you’re the painters… Together, in love, harmony, in Eternal Bliss

There are, as I see It, Five main phases of a twin flame relationship. Everyone understands the twin flame relationship differently… and there are no clear timelines or specific periods for any of these phases.

Each differs for every twin flame couple. I’m giving you this information so that you can understand this relationship better. There are no rules. And there is no One-size-fits-all in a Twin flame relationship.

Each relationship will be unique, just like each couple.

Having said that, Here are the 5 main phases that usually resonate with all twin flames in some way.

:: Phase One – The Preparation

This phase comes BEFORE you meet your twin flame.
But I’m counting it as one of the phases as It is very much a part of your Twin flame relationship.

What happens in this phase –

– Karmic Relationships
There are one or few seriously devastating relationships. These begin with strong emotions and end painfully. These are called Karmic relationships.

– Emptiness and Strong desire for ‘The One’
After you’ve been through the Karmic relationships, you’ll have a very deep yearning or desire to find ‘The One’.
At this point you will desire meeting your perfect love, whose image you will carry in your imagination (or in some cases in Dreams).
This Image is of your Twin flame, although you probably won’t realize it at this point.
This happens because your soul knows your Twin flame is coming!

:: Phase Two – The Meeting – A Glimpse Of Heaven

This is the phase when you meet your twinflame for the first time (in this incarnation).
You might try to resist at this point but you will fall for him/her anyway.
Then comes a short period of ‘perfection’.
This is what I like to call A Glimpse of Heaven

What happens In this Phase –

– The first meeting
You’ll meet your twinflame in unusual circumstances or at some unexpected place.
[A place where you would not expect meeting your life partner/soulmate]
You’ll find this person somehow ‘special’ at this point. Even though you might not even think of them as a partner.

– The initial attraction
You’ll soon find yourself being attracted to your twinflame.
You might not be ready for a relationship (because of the karmic relationships that you’ve been through) and so you might try to resist this attraction.
You’ll fall anyway. Deeply in love.

– A short period of the most ‘Perfect’ relationship that you’ve ever experienced.
After the initial attraction, You’ll find yourself in a deeply romantic relationship.
It will seem perfect in every possible way.
You’ll find all that you want in your partner and much more.

This is what the Twinflame relationship is actually supposed to be like.
And this is what it becomes ( if not better ) after you get through the problems that surface in the next phase.
This short period makes you aware of the perfection of yourself and your twinflame nd brings back the memories that were always deep within you. This makes you want to go through the next phase ( which is a little tough ).
Its like a trailer for what your relationship is going to be in phase four, after the reunion.

:: Phase three – The Dance – Resolving what is known as the Karma

This is the tough one.
It starts after you’ve been in a relationship with your twinflame for a while.
In this phase, all the accumulated negativity and lower emotions come to surface.
This seems difficult to go through at the human level,
but it is actually a truly divine process in which the Twin flames get deeply cleansed with each other’s help.
This lets them achieve higher energy levels so that they can ascend in bliss together.

This is also the phase where both twin flames get spiritually enlightened…
This is when they search and find the spiritual reality.
If you’re currently in a Twinflame relationship, you’re probably in this phase (As This is the period of time when you usually begin finding information on this).

What Happens in this Phase –

– Arguments / Fights
This phase brings many arguments and fights.
This happens because the negativity that each partner is carrying within (usually at a subconscious level) comes to surface.
The twin flame will reflect this like a mirror and so you’ll think its in them, when in reality its in you.
This begins the deep cleansing process.

– The blame game
Each twin flame sees their own negativity and clutter in their twin flame.
Also, deep seated fears and frustrations surface.
So you think Its happening because of the other and start blaming each other.
You consciously might not realize it but this is clearing all your clutter which is a good thing.

– The runner and the Chaser.
The arguments and the Blaming causes a lot of confusion (because usually the spiritual process is not understood by the conscious mind, as we are conditioned to trust logic more that feeling)

One twin flame, at this point, takes the role of the ‘Runner’ (which is usually the man)
The Runner tries to avoid the partner and runaway from the relationship.
This happens because the runner doesn’t consciously know what is going on and feels like he’s losing control.

In our defense system we build up huge walls to protect ourselves THIS HAPPENS AS SOON as we meet someone who will help us to repeat our patterns of abuse, abandonment, betrayal, and/or deprivation. his happens because those people feel familiar. Unfortunately in childhood the people whom we trusted the most – were the most familiar – hurt us the most. So the effect is that we keep repeating our patterns and being given the reminder that it is not safe to trust ourselves or other people.

The other twin flame, now, becomes what I call the ‘Chaser’ (usually the woman)
The Chaser is spiritually more aware than the runner at some level and tries to ‘chase’ or ‘run after’ the runner.

The chaser usually wants some sort of commitment at this point. This happens as the chaser subconsciously or consciously wants to get over with this tough phase so that both of them can reunite.

The Chaser is deeply shocked and hurt by the ‘running’ and unexpected behavior of the Runner.

This is when they feel the need to understand what really is happening and so they start searching or reading about it.

This usually leads to the enlightenment of the Chaser.

The Runner becomes spiritually enlightened too, either through the chaser’s conscious effort, Or by receiving a ‘Soul Shock’ when the Chaser gives up and goes away from the Runner Twin-flame.

The Phase gets stretched longer the more the Runner runs.
Ultimately, the runner does return and the Karma is finally fully resolved.

:: Phase Four – The Reunion

This is the phase of the reunion.
This is when the split soul becomes One again.
This happens first at the level of the soul and then in the physical plane (Yes, that’s when you get married, unless, as in rare cases your physical reunion is not a part of the plan)

The reunion happens when both the partners are fully aware of the spiritual reality.

:: Phase Five – Eternal Bliss – Being LOVE

This is the ‘Happily Ever After’ Phase.
Both Twinflames will be fully spiritually aware and enlightened at this time.
There is perfect love and harmony.
The twinflames now enjoy their Sacred love and Intimacy,
and have the power to create whatever they can imagine…

The world truly becomes their canvas… And they paint it with the colors of Love.

At the end of their journey on Earth, They ascend together…
And go on to experience more…
just like they always have…
In other worlds and other planets… In this universe and beyond…
Together, In love, joy, and Peace
Together, In Eternal Bliss…

You Can’t Screw Up the Relationship with your Twin Flame via Kate Rose


“Chaos isn’t always pretty, but it is necessary for change.” ~ Kate Rose

It seems that we often confuse amazing and easy.

We run from chaos and then wonder why mediocrity bores us—yet, in terms of love, the twin flame connection will ruin you from the outside in so that you might begin fulfilling your soul contract.

In this life, we all start off on the path that we think we should be on; but, in truth, sometimes that differs greatly from where our souls are supposed to be. We make choices based on our upbringing and familial conditioning, never pausing to consider if we are following our own hearts or the expectations of those closest to us.

That is where twin flames enter our lives.

These types of soul contracts arise with the purpose of upsetting the status quo so that we might be redirected on the path of our hearts. This means they will ruin relationships, marriages, careers—essentially anything and everything that keeps us small.

Twin flames don’t reunite instantly, because the love and relationships they find themselves in are actually byproducts of the actual growth and journey that is the entire purpose of the union. Twins are supposed to trigger one another, bother and upset each other, and cause havoc.

But only because there isn’t any way to become who we are meant to be by remaining who we were.

Many times it seems twins think they’ve messed up their relationship with their counterpart. They think that “not now” is “never,” and that they have done or said the wrong thing, permanently pushing their twin away.

Yet, the reality is that will never occur.

There is no way to truly screw up and lose a twin flame connection, even if, at times, it may feel that way. Twins often need to travel through the beginning phases of awakening and ascension alone, and so there may be long breaks in the journey, hurtful words, and triggered egos but there will never be a way to truly ruin the sacred union between these two.

This means that not only will everything happen in divine timing, but also that we can’t ever really mess up what is meant for us. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that there is an ultimate plan for each one of us, possibly one that has been arranged prior to coming to Earth in this lifetime.

Yet, it’s only our fear of greatness that holds us back from realizing our own.

In twin flame dynamics, it’s supposed to be rocky. The runner is supposed to leave multiple times, and the chaser is supposed to feel abandoned—unless these souls move through these specific dynamics there is ultimately no way that they will be triggered enough to engage in the overall process of ascension and vibrational alignment.

But, we are sold the false belief that twins aren’t supposed to reunite in this lifetime when things get difficult or they separate—yet that is only one side that is published and discussed by twins who haven’t yet begun the reuniting phase.

The reality is that if twins venture far enough together to begin ascension and the actual phase of runner and chaser, then they are, in fact, meant to join in this lifetime—as that is the entire purpose of the stages and subsequent journey that they will embark on.

They aren’t just here to develop on their own, they are here to awaken, to raise their consciousness, and to learn to practice and embody unconditional love, which is the highest vibration of God’s energy. Twins are meant to join in this life to help encourage others around them. The more twins that reunite, the higher the consciousness of the planet is raised—and, then, also changed.

To say that twins aren’t meant to join in this lifetime is a feeling of helplessness at the apparent lack of control of the connection. But, this is only felt when we try to rationalize and use logic as we would with a relationship based more in the physical world than the spiritual.

Twin flames aren’t from this three-dimensional physical world, and so they have to be approached differently.

One twin will treat the other awfully at times; they will project and even run. They will blame their twin for their inability to stay asleep and forget that the universe is tapping them on the shoulder to awaken. When this happens, it becomes easier to say that it’s not meant to be, or even that perhaps this person in our lives isn’t our twin.

All this accomplishes, though, is demonstrating the readiness of the twin that feels wounded and perpetuates the status of the victim.

As long as the chaser still feels wounded by the runner’s behavior, then they are not yet ready to practice unconditional love for their twin. One of the purposes of the falling apart and together is not only to trigger so that they might move through the stages of soul development, but also to test and learn how to build unconditional love toward one another.

Yet, instead of seeing it as this, we become hard on ourselves.

We sink into despair; we think that we’ve ruined this sacred union for all time, and that somehow we have messed up our destiny. The important thing to remember, though, is that we can’t change fate; we can battle it, run from it, and ignore it, but, in the end, what was destined to be will always be—even if it’s in spite of ourselves.

Twin flames are going to be reuniting more and more throughout this year and the coming five years as part of the general awakening of the planet. We need them to, as there is no other way to shift the consciousness of this planet.

It’s a love that truly can change the world, which is also why it’s meant to be—no matter what we do.


Author: Kate Rose
Image: Instagram/
Editor: Leah Sugerman

Twin Flame Signs Nobody Talks About By consciousreminder

Twin Flame Signs Nobody Talks About
By consciousreminder


The [energy] experienced between two reunited Twin Flames is like a wild beast. It can’t be captured. It can’t be contained. It can’t be tamed. Instead, it burns fiercely with an unquenchable form of intensity that is both exhilarating and formidable. The [energy] experienced between Twin Flames is like Holy Fire: it burns you to ashes, but it also forges you into a new creature, like a Phoenix emerging out of the dust. ~ adapted from

So, you think you have found your Twin Flame? If you landed on this post you probably did an internet search to find out more. By now you know there are tons of articles and blog posts and experts. TONS. Sifting through the information is an arduous task at best. I won’t rehash what is already out there but as a reminder, the main purpose of a Twin Flame Reunion is to bring something of purpose to the world. Your Twin Flame is the mirror of your soul- your soul reflecting back to you. That means you get to see the raw “stuff” that is there for you to work on so that you can bring more light into the world, either individually or (but not necessarily) in partnership with your Twin Flame.

Frankly, the entire Twin Flame phenomenon is a bit tabloid-ish and overblown. This is not the stuff of romance novels and women’s magazines. There is no quiz to determine if you have met your Twin Flame. You can’t take a course or listen to an audio and learn to attract your Twin Flame. Twin Flames just do not fit any “earthly” relationship paradigm. Romanticizing the Twin Flame Reunion is opposite of the Twin Flame purpose and takes it away from soul level progress and back to the human condition.

As an Intuitive and Energy Healer, I have a lot of folks reaching out to me talking about their Twin Flame connections so I thought I would give my spin.

I’ve never felt this way before!

I get that. But this feeling you are experiencing does not necessarily have anything to do with romantic love. That’s right. Unconditional love that exists at soul level may not translate to being “in love.”

So much information exists about determining if the person you are involved with is your Twin Flame, or naming the dysfunctional patterns of Twin Flame relationships- the runner, the chaser, the push-pull… so, I thought I might share a few “signs” nobody is talking about. Ok. I take that back. Perhaps a few people are, but I just wanted to share the…

Non-romanticized Twin Flame Signs List

1.You may feel you recognize the person- either from this life or a past life. Some describe it as déjà vu; others experience this recognition as a deep knowing at soul level. This does not necessarily happen instantly. You may have known the person for years. The first physical contact may be the trigger for recognition.

2. Looking into the eyes of your Twin Flame can be REALLY intense, not necessarily because you are looking into the eyes of your true love, but because you are looking into the mirror of your own soul.

3. Your own intuition may become heightened. You may feel a deep intuitive connection with your Twin Flame. This may or may not involve telepathy but instead you will know your Twin Flame through one or more of the Clair Senses (Clairvoyance, Claircognizance, Clairaudience, Clairsentience). Everyone’s experience is different.

4. You will not float on a cloud of increased intuitive and telepathic skills all the time. And while physical contact can increase the overall energetic aura the two of you carry together, this doesn’t always happen either. Remember, life happens in the midst of the reunion so don’t go chasing after that feeling.

5. There may be no magical synchronicities that are obvious. And unless you know to look for mirrored number sequences like 747 or 818, or the numbers 11:11 or 111, you will miss those signs too.

6. The push-pull, runner-chaser dynamic so often referred to in Twin Flame relationships may not be that at all. It may just be a normal human reaction to a very intense experience. This happens in all kinds of relationships all the time. We tend to run away from confusion. Again, that’s the human condition.

7. The feeling you have for your Twin Flame will be indescribable. There are simply no words to describe what many refer to as the Twin Flame “love”- which could be more accurately described as a magnetic soul energy that emerges when two people meet and look into the mirror of their own souls.

8. The reason for the reunion with your Twin Flame is to face your own unresolved issues and reach your soul’s highest potential so that you can shine light into the world. Period. Physical partnering or romance happens when the physical/sexual contact is necessary for you to get to your own core issues. This physical union may or may not be part of the journey.

9. Sex with your Twin Flame is often very intense but it feels more magnetizing and energizing than what is typically experienced during traditional lovemaking. Twin Flame sex is often the physical body experiencing an astral bonding through the lower Chakra points. Ultimately, the goal should be about moving the relationship out of the lower chakras and into the upper chakras – out of the physical body and into spirt or the astral plane.

10. The heart chakra lends to bonding on the physical plane so that we can transcend to the astral plane, or 5th dimension. When Twin Flames connect at Heart level, those pitter patter feelings of love can happen because that is how we best express the feeling in our physical bodies. This bonding and connection can also be emotionally and physically painful in ways that you may not have experienced (causing the push-pull dynamic).

11. Sometimes Twin Flames do become romantic partners or spouses, but this is often not the case. So don’t count on it. In fact, counting on it means you are missing the point of the journey. Some believe Twin Flames can be best friends, or even related!

12. It is true that one or both of you may decide to “run” from the experience. And if that happens it can feel very devastating. Twin Flames WILL reunite, but not necessarily in this lifetime or in physical form. So, if your Twin Flame leaves to take care of earthly business (marriage, career, relocation) don’t go chasing. Let them be and return to your own inner examination.

13. If you are not ready to continue or to embark on your own soul journey- a journey to the center of you- then meeting your Twin Flame can be excruciating and cause great turmoil. Know that if you have met your Twin Flame, there is work for you to do. You will meet your own Shadow. It won’t be all fun and roses. There will be lessons to learn. Take notes.


You may feel that meeting your Twin Flame couldn’t have happened at a worse time, but that is when it often occurs. This can challenge your integrity and values and cause you to question what you have always known. Not to worry. If you are doing your own soul-level work, you will be propelled forward. No matter how chaotic the bonding may be, no matter what life situations you or your Twin Flame are embroiled in, you will be led into your own journey of the soul so that your light can shine. That is a guarantee.

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Finding Love After Separating From Our Twin Flame by consciousreminder


Finding Love After Separating From Our Twin Flame

By consciousreminder –

January 18, 2017

“Next time, I’ll ask for a better map. Do you know how many dead ends and detours I took to find you?”~ Unknown

Our Twin Flame is not the only soulmate we will meet in this lifetime.

As many of us are experiencing ascension, we also are being drawn toward reuniting with our twin flame. We have been set on fire by the experience, and we have been forever changed by the connection and love of our soul’s other half.

Yet, the reality that many of us find ourselves facing is that only in one of our last lifetimes left on earth are we truly supposed to join each other and live together in love.

For the rest of us, that means we will find our lives torn up and turned around—wondering how on earth someone that we felt such a connection with is also someone who we aren’t meant to be with…in this life.

Although at first it can seem like a difficult challenge, the reality is that just because we have parted from our twin flame does not mean that our time for love in this life is over.

If we meet our twin flame, but go on our separate journeys, it isn’t that somehow we messed things up—it’s that it wasn’t meant to be…this time.

We have to trust the path of our twin, and that means sometimes they come into our lives just to help change the direction of it—not to stay forever.

Our twin flames are unique because of the connection shared, but these unions are also often far from easy or even completely fulfilling. These unions usually are designed to be challenging—not to stop them from happening, but to see how ready each flame is for the power of the connection that will be made, if each makes the choice to love.

It’s overpowering, and sometimes seems like it would be easier to just forget they ever existed in the first place.

But growth doesn’t occur through forgetting, it only happens when we are able to fully process all we’ve been through so we can create the path to where we want to be.

One of the most important aspects to finding love after we’ve separated from our twin flame is to remember that every single person we have romantic relationships with will affect us differently—but that doesn’t mean that, in their own way, they each aren’t our soulmate.

Yes, the connection and chemistry with a twin flame is a once in a lifetime experience, but that doesn’t exclude that there may be another love waiting to manifest—one that will be a better fit for our soul and life. Regardless of the power of the twin flame connection, if one or both flames haven’t yet awakened, then the time spent in the relationship can be grueling and also prevent each person from individually growing and moving forward.

Sometimes the love of our life is not our twin flame, but a soulmate who is able to meet us where we are on our journey and give us what we are looking for in a partner. This isn’t settling—it’s making the choice to fulfill our own needs before those of our twin flame.

The thing that we need to remember is that just because we lost something that felt amazing, it doesn’t mean that we won’t still find something incredible. But we can’t just kiss our twin flame goodbye one day and expect to be able to fall in love the next.

As with any break up or separation, there has to be a grieving process. We must be able to not just get over the emotional disturbance of losing someone who meant a great deal to us, but we also have to be able to process it, so that when we do come out on the other side, we haven’t just covered it up but have made the choice to grow through it.

The act of healing with growth can occur through meditation, journaling and time to just separate enough from the first emotional response so that we can process the experiences of being with our twin in its entirety.

We also could choose to practice rituals of release during the full moon. This can be writing everything down on a piece of paper, folding it three times and letting it burn underneath the full moon—and with it, release whatever emotional or mental weights we’ve been carrying from the experience.

However we go about healing, it’s important to remember that we need to allow ourselves time to do just that—to heal—because we can’t get to the next stage of inviting love into our lives if we are still carrying emotional scars.

Once we have healed and processed, we are ready to open. This means re-opening our hearts, our souls and even our lives to the person who could physically join us on our journey and become the complement to our soul.

Masculine and feminine energies always crave one another—not as in male and female people specifically, but in the essence of the sublime Shiva and Shakti form of divine light and love.

So whether our twin decides to meet us in this life or not—there is no doubt that we are destined for love. Perhaps we won’t find ourselves sharing our lives with our twin, but perhaps what we do find is what will take us where we’re meant to be.

We are light orbs of energy, full of radiating love and vibrating on our own frequency; so regardless of how long it takes or in what form it comes, someone will come along to complement us, and perhaps to show us why it wasn’t meant to work out with our twin flame.

Love comes in many forms, and sometimes we have to take the long way to find it. Yet, it’s not about the length of time it takes us to get where we are supposed to be, but rather why we chose to continue on. Because in the end, whoever is meant for us won’t ever truly leave us—and they won’t need to be chased.

So sometimes, the simplest thing to do is just let go—knowing that someday whatever is meant for us will find its way to us. And when it does—it will stay.