Card For Today

Walk Away

Our card for today, Monday, April 30th, is taken from the Magical Messages from the Fairies Oracle Cards – Walk Away – “Leave the unhealthy situation, and enjoy the new doors that open as a result!”

How many of us stay in unhealthy situations, whether that is a relationship, or a job, or even a friendship, because it is “safe” meaning it is known as opposed to unknown? You know what they say, “better the devil you know than the devil you don’t”. However what we feel is safe because we know it and are used to it and know what to expect, doesn’t mean it’s healthy for us or even right for us. Sometimes it takes courage to walk away, but it is also necessary for our own survival, not necessarily physical survival, but for our very well being as a whole.

When things are unhealthy, or when things get bad, it’s a sure sign it’s time to move on. Why would we continue to put up with a situation where we are disrespected and undervalued and maybe even abused? Does it again come back to our feelings of unworthiness? My ex before I worked up the courage to leave him would tell me that no one else would ever love me, that I was fat and ugly. I lived in that situation for 8 years where according to him everything I watched or listened to or read was stupid, that I was stupid, and after a while I started to believe him. I completely lost myself, who I truly am, in my marriage, and I can tell you that certainly wasn’t healthy. Thankfully I had a loving family who helped me get out of that situation.

It took me a long time to find myself again, and then I turned around and went back to a similar situation that I remained in for 10 years in the name of Twin Flame. It wasn’t quite the same which is why it took me some time to figure out exactly what was going on, but I have walked away now from that situation and I am not looking back. This is why I have some serious issues with the Twin Flame concept when I hear of people, men and women, putting up with abuse and disrespect from the one supposed to be their Twin. And what are we being told? “How much can you love?” If you love them enough eventually they will wake up and come back to you. Then they call it unconditional love, so that it doesn’t matter what they do to you, you stay and love them anyways. I went along with that to the point it nearly destroyed me.

So if you find yourself in an unhealthy situation please don’t stay, not for any reason. Nothing is worth losing yourself over. Let me ask you this, can you unconditionally love yourself enough to not let anyone for any reason, under any circumstances, make you feel unworthy of the love and respect that you deserve? And then if you do find yourself in a situation like that, can you then walk away in the name of self-love?

It may be that when someone does this to us, it’s not about us, it’s about them and what they have experienced in their own lives, but that doesn’t mean that we have to stay and put up with it. We can love someone from a distance, meaning we don’t have to keep them in our lives. The more chances we give people, the more they take advantage of us and the more they disrespect us in the long run. So don’t be afraid to walk away, and when you do, new doors and new opportunities for love, or a job, or a new situation will open up. Remember as long as we cling to the old, nothing new can come into our lives. And remember too that you are the son or daughter of the Creator of All Things, and you are magnificent and you are sooo loved!

Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~

Love & Light,
Carolyn & My Spirit Team

Artwork taken from the Magical Messages from the Fairies Oracle Cards, Walk Away.


Card For The Weekend

Knock and it shall be opened unto you

Our card for the weekend, April 28th & 29th, is taken from the Loving Words from Jesus Card Deck – Knock, and it shall be opened unto you – “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” (Matthew 7:7 NIV)

This appears to be a continuation of yesterday’s card reading where I said that our prayers are heard and answered. In this card Jesus is telling us to ask and we will receive, to seek and we will find, and to knock and the door will be opened. And He continues on in verses 9 to 11 – “Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!” So now the question is, do we realize yet how loved we are?

If we ask God for something, and even though we may not receive an answer right away, or even if God says no to our request, what exactly does that mean? We can go back to yesterday’s reading in which I said that sometimes the timing is off for one reason or another. This will delay our receiving what we asked God for, which doesn’t mean we won’t get it, but that we must be patient and trust with faith that we will receive it when the time is right, the Divine Right Time. If the answer is no, then it means God has something even more amazing for us than whatever it is we asked for. The thing is, can we be open to receive this more amazing blessing He has in store for us. Are we going to sulk and pout like children because we didn’t get that thing we wanted so badly, and in the process turn our backs on, or throw away, the gift He is giving us instead?

We forget that God knows us, really KNOWS us, better than we know ourselves and that means He knows what is best for us as well. So while we are asking for this person or thing, and God says “no, I have something better in mind for you that you are going to love even more”, do we ignore it or throw it back at Him because it isn’t exactly what we wanted? If we do then we have no idea how much God loves us. As the verse above states, if we asked for a fish, would God give us a snake? NO, of course not! But we may get a different kind of fish then the one we wanted because God knows it is better for us. This is just an analogy but you get the meaning of it I’m sure.

We need to be open, open in heart and mind, to receive what God knows is best for us, whatever or whomever that may be. It may not be exactly what or who we asked for, but you can rest assured it will be a whole lot better and more right for us than what we originally asked for. It’s like when we are looking for the perfect mate, be that a soul mate or a Twin Flame. We think we already know who that is and yet that person continually ignores us or treats us badly, but we hang on in the hopes that one day he or she will wake up and smell the coffee and realize it is us they love.

However I have learned from a couple of sources that our Twin Flame is first and foremost a stream of consciousness and that if it doesn’t work out with the one we thought was our Twin or soul mate, we have not lost our chance at union with our Twin, that consciousness can come through someone else for us. We get so hung up on it having to be this one person that we lose sight of what God has in store for us. I have heard of people walking away from someone amazing because he or she was not their Twin Flame. Because their Twin now chose to come in a different form than the one they believed to be their Twin, they rejected that person. I believe this is why some say we have more than one Twin Flame or soul mate because in truth the consciousness of our Twin Flame or soul mate is not limited to one person and one person only, which is only our perception of the way things work.

We continually limit ourselves when we do this with anything that comes our way because we are so stuck on it having to be this certain way or not at all. We need to be open to what God has for us when it comes to the answer to our prayers. If we remain closed, then we may be missing out on the best thing that could happen to us. So when we pray for anything, we need to have faith and trust yes, but we also need to be open and ready to accept the answer to our prayer, even if it comes in a form we didn’t expect.

Have a great weekend everyone! ~Namaste~

Love & Light,
Carolyn & My Spirit Team

Artwork taken from the Loving Words from Jesus Card Deck, Knock, and it shall be opened unto you.


Card For Today


Our card for today, Friday, April 27th, is taken from the Magical Mermaids and Dolphins Oracle Cards – You’re Being Helped – “Heaven is working behind the scenes to help you, even if you don’t see results yet.”

It can be frustrating, and even worrisome, when we need help with a situation and we have prayed and prayed about it seemingly to no avail. However we can’t begin to see the bigger picture or what is going on behind the scenes. We just have to have faith and trust that even if things aren’t happening for us now, it doesn’t mean that they won’t happen or that our prayers are not being heard. We are assured that our prayers are heard and they are answered – “13 And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. 14 You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.” (John 14:13-14 NIV) Sometimes the timing is off, maybe a person needs to be in place or something else needs to happen first before our prayer can be answered. And sometimes it is not the Divine Right Time. God has His own timing for things and it may not coincide with our own time when we want it right now. I don’t know about all of you but I can guarantee you that patience is a life lesson I came here to learn, and I still have some work to do on that one too.

This doesn’t only apply to our own personal situations that we need help with, this applies to whatever is happening on the world stage. We may grumble and complain about how long this ascension process is taking, or that “the event” hasn’t happened yet, or disclosure is taking too long, or whatever else is happening or not happening that we have been praying about. Just because we can’t see any visible changes yet doesn’t mean it’s not happening or getting ready to happen. Speaking as a Twin Flame, how many of us are absolutely fed up with waiting for our Twins to get their act together and wake up? Again, just because we can’t see any visible results doesn’t mean it’s not happening on several levels. And again, in this matter as in all others, patience is a virtue! So hang in there and be patient, as hard as it is sometimes, and have faith and trust that everything will work out for the highest good of all in the end.

Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~

Love & Light,
Carolyn & My Spirit Team

Artwork taken from the Magical Mermaids and Dolphins Oracle Cards, You’re Being Helped.


Why Telepathy In Love Is Never Great? by Spiritual Unite


I’m not sure that I completely agree with this, yes it can mean less communication in the “real” world, and I don’t think it will slow down our unions with our Twins. I believe that for me it has been a saving grace that I can communicate with my Twin Flame telepathically when we are not able to communicate for “real”. Sometimes his internet is down in the country where he lives, sometimes he’s sick or whatever and our “real” communication doesn’t happen for a few days or longer sometimes. BUT I always know that we have our telepathic communication and astral travel to help us through these times.

I won’t lock that door ever. I have done it in the past but I miss him then, I feel empty inside. I mean isn’t the whole point that these relationships transcend space and time? Telepathic communication doesn’t happen with other relationships very often, for me he’s the only one I have this with. So that is my opinion and you of course must use your own discernment and do what feels right for you. Much love! ~Carolyn~

Why Telepathy In Love Is Never Great?

So what is telepathy in love? Ever wake up in the morning, and all you do is just think about them? You spend your whole day wondering about them; you think of them whispering to you. A portal has opened to your heart and soul for this person to dwell in a place of safety.

Telepathic Love Can Threaten Your Inner Peace

There are days you get sick of thinking about them, but you rejuvenate the next morning like you had a great night in bed with them, you feel great. What happened? Your soul has traveled with your telepathic lover. But you still wonder where they are when you need them, and frustration gets to you, and you decide its time to end it. Telepathy in love can be frustrating.

There they are, like magic they appear on your computer or phone, asking how things are going. They promise things will be better and spend some time with you. They promise to make it up to you. You are excited again. That portal to your heart and soul has once again opened. There it is, two more months have gone.

It’s Time To Close That Portal For Good

Telepathy in love can be great sometimes but think of what you are creating, you are frustrated because this love can’t manifest itself in the physical reality, as long as you keep that portal open, you are giving your lover an easy escape out of the relationship. You are only allowing a connection in the dream or astral rather than real actions.

Closing The Door To Telepathy In Love

Steps To Close That Portal;

Imagine A Locked Door

At night time try and imagine a locked door to your soul, heart, and mind. In the morning you will be exhausted. The reason being your telepathic lover was banging on that telepathic door trying to get in all night.

You are saying to your telepathic partner that the telepathic relationship has ended, from now on its the real way. When you are refusing to have a telepathic link you are telling your lover to come to you in person if this relationship is ever going to work. Closing that door is tough love.

Does My Lover Know They Are In A Telepathic Relationship?

Most of the time your lover will never know they are astral traveling and connecting on a spiritual level. But they can be sure of that you will be there waiting for them. Intact there is no urgency for them to take action.

A soul merge happens when you are answering their telepathic call. Signs that your portal is wide open is when you dream, you hear whispers of conversation and the feeling they are merging with you, and often carrying them when you go places.

They Notice When The Portal Is Closed

Yes, they will see that the portal to your soul and mind has closed. They will start panicking, the feeling they are about to lose you. They won’t know why this is happening to them, and they will aggressively try to reach you by email or phone or even try to visit you. They feel abandoned because you have closed your heart, now they are taking action.

Telepathic love and sexual obsession are different because it’s of the physical world. There is not much spiritual drive in sexual fantasy. It’s simply of the physical gratification.

Telepathic love is a spiritual merge allowing you to feel and hear your lover as one. If your telepathic partner does not come into your life with any action, then they never will.

A Message to Lightworkers – June 23, 2017 by Caroline Oceana Ryan


This week, the Collective received a question from a Lightworker that millions around the world are grappling with.

I offer their answer here, and below that, another excerpt from their new book, Connections: The Collective Speak on Romance and Friendship.

[QUESTION] In regards to the chaos happening during this Ascension, I know that we are told to just be happy and allow others to have their experience, and that there are no victims.

At the same time, there are things happening, particularly in politics, that are so far from the norm.

I’m wondering what the balance is between acknowledging the chaos and fighting for what’s right, and simply tuning that out and focusing on our own happiness, as a way to raise the vibration and help everyone through our own joy.

I feel like it’s as if I’m looking down at my phone, and I’m going to look up and the world is going to be burned down around me. And I’m going to wish I had done something more?

[The Collective] Greetings! We are happy to speak with you today, dear ones. This is a powerful and important point, and well worth answering.

We would say, that each has her or his own path, and that the intuitive following of that path, as your higher self guides and directs you, is one of the greater forms of soul expression you will ever experience as a human being, particularly at this point on the current timeline.

So that while one person’s path might be to jump up and work for a nonprofit that serves Syrian refugees, another person’s might be to paint or write of a great vision of Peace.

Another’s might be to speak with persons of differing cultural viewpoints, to help them find a common ground they never knew could exist.

Another’s path might be to send waves of higher Light and Love to all who are struggling now, whether with inner or outer turmoil or both, so that they do not lose heart, and know that on a higher level, all is well.

That all is occurring according to plan, in the sense of Earth’s Ascension into higher dimensional life.

And so, there can never be one answer, just as there can never be one Ascension path.

What is there for you to do, that will aid a planet in turmoil? Only you can answer this, dear one.

We say to each of you, Where is your passion? What most intrigues and pulls you toward it, whatever it may be?

You will hear many say, “Theatre doesn’t help anyone!” Or “You may be a doctor, but you’re not the right kind.”

Allow No One to judge the path you are walking. It is only for you to discover and fulfill, and not for another (including your left-brain, logical aspect) to judge as adequate or inadequate.

You are here to fulfill that vision you had before incarnating.

And so, sit quietly with your team of Guides, Angels, and Higher Self each morning, and present this conundrum to them.

Say to them, “What did I come here for? You knew how the Earth would be struggling, at this point — the planet, and Her people. What did I specifically come here to do?”

Give them permission to send you their higher thoughts and solutions, which will pop up in your mind as if they originate from within your own heart-mind.

They will be filled with a special Light, and a feeling of rightness that other thoughts and ideas do not hold.

Also be aware of outer signs and symbols. Do not brush them aside.

When you hear or read a phrase that jumps out at you, that feels to be speaking to you, heed this as a higher wisdom reaching you.

Say, “Yes, I am listening. I am actively following the higher wisdom I am given. This is easy for me to do. And what follows is a sense of Peace of heart and mind, even in these trying days.”

And so dear ones, we send with this Message an energetic boost to aid you in your quest to remember with increasing clarity Who you are and Why you came, and to have the courage, even the Joy, to fulfill this.

Yes, these energies are enervating. And yet, they also open many portals and pathways for you to recall past lives, life in other dimensions and on other planets, and your true identity and soul mission.

Be of good cheer! These wheels you see turning are quickly aiding the presence and dominance of Divine Light in the Universe (on all planets, and not only your own).

They do not signal chaos, despite appearances, so much as a new Beginning.

The old must crack and crumble and give way before the new can be instated.

Allow this, as you allow the release of all in your that is no longer for your higher good.

And so — Namaste, dear ones! You are never alone.”

Copyright 2017, Caroline Oceana Ryan

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An excerpt from the Collective’s new book: Connections: The Collective Speak on Romance and Friendship
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From Chapter 7 – “On True and Authentic Partnerships”

[Question] My thirty-eight year relationship came to an end after deception and dishonesty. Even after that length of time committed to a relationship, I feel the separation was for my highest good.

When you speak of twin flames, does that mean your true, authentic partnership?

I am feeling through my spiritual growth that this relationship will become apparent to me very soon. A relationship of trust, support, and understanding, at a level I have never experienced before.

[The Collective] We would say, that the length of time you are with someone is not germane to whether or not you should remain with them. You may be with someone for only a few weeks or months, for example, and realize then that they are not for your higher good.

Or you may be with someone for nearly forty years, as you have been, and realize they are no longer for your higher good. That your paths are no longer on the same trajectory, and that now you must both move on in life.

This is not a matter of loss or “failure” or any other form of density. It is a matter of growth, of realizing what is good for you at this part of your path, and what is not. There need not be a sense of blame or betrayal or loss. You have chosen, on a higher level, to release your partner.

That would have come about in any event, from some situation contrived on a higher level to separate you, if not from your own inner decision.

Bless your partner and the situation, and the path that is leading you away from them. This is part of why you have come to this moment. You are here to experience the forward movement, the growth engendered from release, including (if you can) forgiveness of your former partner.

You are also here to know the joy of moving forward on your own, developing areas of your outer life and inner realization, and even your basic identity, including likes and dislikes that you were suppressing so as to keep things on an even keel with your former partner.

What you are asking for is a heart connection that originates consciously on a soul level.

Regarding your connection to your twin flame, what you share with them is a connection like no other. This is the truest and most authentic partnership you can know.

Though your connection with Creator God/Goddess or Source Energy is greater, your twin flame takes part in that connection with you. They are an aspect of Who you already are, and not the “Other” that so many Earth partnerships represent.

This is part of why you have released your long-term Earth relationship. It can no longer fulfill what you are asking for, which is a heart connection that originates consciously on a soul level.

But understand that your connection with your twin flame is already in place. There is no need to create it.

What is happening now is that you are becoming increasingly aware of that connection, which has existed for as long as your soul has existed.

One twin is the Feminine essence of the soul, the other the Masculine essence, and together they form a beautiful and unified Whole.

That wholeness is what you seek now—the even balance, the perfect integration. A symbiotic knowing and understanding of your twin, without one of you keeping any quiet corners hidden in shadow from the other.

We do not call it a “relationship,” for you do indeed relate to your twin flame, when you travel etherically to be with them in your sleep state each night, and on a higher level, all of the time.

But this is not the sort of “relating” you learned in third dimensional life. For one, your communication with them is telepathic and intuitive.

It is beyond words and their constricted meanings.

For another, you know each other to the point where explanations and expectations are not necessary.

You may be thinking, “In that case, why can’t I just speak to them telepathically in my waking hours?” and the answer is, you can! We encourage this in every Lightworker. In the channeling sessions our writer offers, we rarely need to request that a person’s twin flame come in to speak with them.

They are usually quietly present, in the background. At the mere mention of the twin flame, he or she immediately steps forward, more than happy to connect in a conscious way, and ready with a comment, reassurance, or an explanation their beloved has been looking for.

Most people do not realize that they can go into a meditation at any time and speak with their twin flame, without any special assistance, though that can be helpful at first.

The mind is not always able to grasp the reality of the twin flame existence, even if the heart feels it intuitively. Most think of a twin flame as an abstract idea.

That slows communication, because so many feel they are merely speaking to the air. You are not.

They hear you, and are with you at every moment.

So are all of us in the Collective, but your twin flame is with you in special ways that no one else can mimic.

When you speak of having a connection built on a level of trust, support, and understanding that you have never experienced before—this is indeed all part of your connection to your beloved twin. But these occur on a very different level than what you have been taught.

For one, “trust” is not a matter only of, “I trust you to keep my private comments confidential,” or “I trust you not to be intimate with anyone but me.”

It goes far deeper than that.

It is the sort of trust that means that if your very soul essence is challenged in some way, you will both throw every resource needed into aligning your soul with those higher forces in the Universe that will ensure whatever form of protection, wisdom, or inspiration is needed.

It means, “I trust you to provide me with complete honesty in all matters, and yet, complete kindness. I trust you to be my higher aspect, reflected back to me.

“I trust you to allow my creativity and self-expression their full, free rein, and to be joyful at the perfection you see in me. And I trust myself to give all of the same to you.”

True “support” is also far different from what you have been taught. You need no “support” from anyone, in the sense that you are weak or troubled or “have bad days.”

No such thing exists. Every single day on Earth is a miracle, no matter what it may hold. And your soul is more powerful than you can know at present, constantly in a state of becoming increasingly One with the higher Light frequencies of this Universe.

It is increasingly capable of experiencing, projecting, and of being Love itself.

You are never in need of support in the sense that you need someone else to be strong for you. That day will never come.

The support you seek is simply affirmation that the above is true—that you are “powerful beyond measure,” as the beautiful words from one dear Lightworker [Marianne Williamson] has noted.

And that your only real job is to glory in that, and to live it out as fully as possible, led by Love and its many demonstrations on your own unique path.

The “understanding” you seek is not a matter of, “Yes, I know what you mean.”

It goes well beyond what the mind is able to grasp in its limited way. It is a heart integration of all that you and your beloved have experienced, all that you both are, and all that you both are able to evolve into, while at each other’s side.

It is a shared experience that extends beyond inner knowing, into a sort of sensory connection with what your partner is experiencing, as well as what they know and feel.

Every romantic relationship you have on this Earth with anyone other than your twin flame is never quite what you are looking for.
And so the connection you seek is indeed well beyond any you have ever known with any other. That makes it not only invaluable, but utterly unique. You cannot duplicate it.

This is why every romantic relationship you have on this Earth with anyone other than your twin flame is not quite what you are looking for. And so now you will ask, “Then how do I meet my twin flame?”

As we have noted elsewhere, they exist on a higher frequency than you currently resonate with. Most people’s twin flames exist on a higher plane, and are not currently incarnate upon the Earth.

If you were on their frequency now, you would be able to see them in the room with you.

Yet they never leave your side . . .

Copyright 2017, Caroline Oceana Ryan

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Twin Flame Challenge: Change Your Energy to Fuel Your Union by Twin Flame Healers


Twin Flame Challenge: Change Your Energy to Fuel Your Union

We were recently at an Energy Psychology workshop with a focus on the energies of love…fascinating. The presenters (Donna Eden and David Feinstein) did an exercise that was quite impactful.

They invited a couple onstage, muscle tested them and did tapping (EFT) until they both tested strong energetically. They then asked the man to think of a complaint he had about his partner. He didn’t speak, he didn’t touch her, just thought of his complaint. After a few seconds of this, they muscle tested his partner (the energetic recipient of his complaint), and she immediately tested weak energetically. This is energetic truth in action, and we experience this all the time.

When Remi is upset with me, thinking negatively, I FEEL it (and of course, the same is true for him). Every time. No matter if we are in the same room or miles apart. Because we (and all twin flames) have a shared energy body (as Remi says, we’re a four-legged creature) our energy, every moment of every day, has a direct and very powerful impact on our twin flame. When he is upset or thinking negatively, my energy drops to a much lower vibration, and I must cope with that reality — and of course the reverse is true for him.

On the other hand, when we are thinking positively of each other and our union, our energy goes WAY up and we are able to teach, heal, learn, and be MUCH more who we came to be on this planet.

The same is true for you and your twin flame. You may not have the power to change what they are thinking, but you can absolutely use your twin flame energy to change the energy you both are experiencing.

One spiritual truth I’ve learned that has been life changing — the most powerful vibration wins. Not necessarily the most positive, the most powerful. As advanced souls, we tend to be empaths and therefore tend to be “vibrationally codependent” with those around us. Think of growing up in a family that did not resonate with you — like most sensitive souls, you probably energetically shifted yourself to fit in and avoid disapproval, negative attention, or abuse. As you grew up, you continued this habit — as a sensitive soul and twin flame, you aren’t built like many of the people on Earth, but forget why. We think we are strange and there must be something wrong with us, when the opposite is true (OK, we are probably all strange, but in a good way hehe).

We came to Earth to help transform the old templates and bring in the new, not to fit in. We do this by connecting with dysfunctional families and bloodlines in childhood, with the purpose of transforming them later in life, and thus being the pioneers and living templates of new paradigm living and relating we are meant to be.

So this pattern plays out with our twin flame. If they are in a lower vibration, we tend to vibrationally match them, which lowers the vibration of the shared energy field. The key is for the more positive vibration to become the most powerful, to reverse the stream. So here comes your twin flame challenge — changing your energy to raise the vibration of your union.

This week, notice the energy you are sending through the pipeline to your twin. When you think of him/her, are you thinking of all of the things they are or aren’t doing or being that upset you? Are you joining them in lower vibration (feeling depressed, anxious, lacking, etc.)? See if you can release this energy as soon as you notice it — bring it into your heart center and breathe. If you can’t let it go easily and go into your heart, try this: Lie down on the Earth or floor, facedown with your arms outstretched over your head, and give all of your complaints and negative thoughts to God/Spirit/the Universe. Feel them drain out of you. (This feels amazing).

When you are calm, sit up, and imagine your twin flame in front of you. Begin to appreciate all of the things you love about your twin flame. Imagine looking into his/her eyes and the connection you experience as souls. Imagine smelling their smell, breathing in harmony with them. Smile. Send them your love through your eyes and heart. Imagine cuddling their inner little boy or girl. The possibilities are endless — it’s your show! Use your imagination to bring your energy to a place of appreciation and compassion for all they are going through. If you have a hard time with this, ask a high being to help you (Kuan Yin, goddess of compassion, is wonderful for this).

To make this exercise even more powerful, visualize the Merkabah and ask for your souls to meet there. In the Merkabah, you can also ask for any obstacles to your union to be transformed, and ask for any parts of both of you that are currently not connected with the energy of your souls to be cleared of negative energies and brought up into the light of your soul.

They will feel this. All of a sudden, they might feel a warmth in their heart, or just feel better or lifted up. They might think of you, or have a good thought or memory, or feel you close to them in a very positive way. This is real transformational alchemy. It will change their energy no matter what they are feeling, and this fuels your union, every time.

This not only benefits your twin flame, but of course benefits you as it raises your vibration and energy, reminds you that you ARE in union already, and you can go there anytime. Plus it feels so damn good.

All twins are in union energetically all of the time, no matter the state of our 3D “relationship.” We are all going through the union process, we can’t stop or change that, but we have a great deal of power in HOW. We can do it the hard way, or the easier way. Why not choose easier?

Remember, ALL twin flames are here with a big mission, whether you remember it or not, to SERVE. It is much bigger than you. Please don’t waste too much of your time and energy going down in vibration — you have suffered so much on Earth already! Why not make it as easy and joyful as you can? Yes, you do have this power.

Make the decision to fuel your union, rather than your separation. Try this challenge, and watch what happens. Repeat daily <3.

© TwinFlameHealers 2015

Karmic Love Is Beautiful, But Painful: Phases Of A Twin Flame Relationship By consciousreminder


June 19, 2017

by Linda Goodman

AS WE ALL KNOW A Twin flame relationship is not all ‘perfect’, as one might expect, especially in the beginning (usually a few years)

After reading or hearing about twin-flames and their perfectly balanced energies, many people think it would be like a fairy tale, the you-find-your-twin flame-and-live-happily-ever-after kind of thing.

It is not.

It is a perfect relationship, but it needs some work from both the partners.

After having been separated from each other literally millions of years ago, both twin-flames(of all souls) went through a lot of pain and suffering… and gathered negative emotions in the process.
These take a while to get sorted. And this can be difficult at times.
But you’ll get through it… Love will take you there… And then the world is your canvas and you’re the painters… Together, in love, harmony, in Eternal Bliss

There are, as I see It, Five main phases of a twin flame relationship. Everyone understands the twin flame relationship differently… and there are no clear timelines or specific periods for any of these phases.

Each differs for every twin flame couple. I’m giving you this information so that you can understand this relationship better. There are no rules. And there is no One-size-fits-all in a Twin flame relationship.

Each relationship will be unique, just like each couple.

Having said that, Here are the 5 main phases that usually resonate with all twin flames in some way.

:: Phase One – The Preparation

This phase comes BEFORE you meet your twin flame.
But I’m counting it as one of the phases as It is very much a part of your Twin flame relationship.

What happens in this phase –

– Karmic Relationships
There are one or few seriously devastating relationships. These begin with strong emotions and end painfully. These are called Karmic relationships.

– Emptiness and Strong desire for ‘The One’
After you’ve been through the Karmic relationships, you’ll have a very deep yearning or desire to find ‘The One’.
At this point you will desire meeting your perfect love, whose image you will carry in your imagination (or in some cases in Dreams).
This Image is of your Twin flame, although you probably won’t realize it at this point.
This happens because your soul knows your Twin flame is coming!

:: Phase Two – The Meeting – A Glimpse Of Heaven

This is the phase when you meet your twinflame for the first time (in this incarnation).
You might try to resist at this point but you will fall for him/her anyway.
Then comes a short period of ‘perfection’.
This is what I like to call A Glimpse of Heaven

What happens In this Phase –

– The first meeting
You’ll meet your twinflame in unusual circumstances or at some unexpected place.
[A place where you would not expect meeting your life partner/soulmate]
You’ll find this person somehow ‘special’ at this point. Even though you might not even think of them as a partner.

– The initial attraction
You’ll soon find yourself being attracted to your twinflame.
You might not be ready for a relationship (because of the karmic relationships that you’ve been through) and so you might try to resist this attraction.
You’ll fall anyway. Deeply in love.

– A short period of the most ‘Perfect’ relationship that you’ve ever experienced.
After the initial attraction, You’ll find yourself in a deeply romantic relationship.
It will seem perfect in every possible way.
You’ll find all that you want in your partner and much more.

This is what the Twinflame relationship is actually supposed to be like.
And this is what it becomes ( if not better ) after you get through the problems that surface in the next phase.
This short period makes you aware of the perfection of yourself and your twinflame nd brings back the memories that were always deep within you. This makes you want to go through the next phase ( which is a little tough ).
Its like a trailer for what your relationship is going to be in phase four, after the reunion.

:: Phase three – The Dance – Resolving what is known as the Karma

This is the tough one.
It starts after you’ve been in a relationship with your twinflame for a while.
In this phase, all the accumulated negativity and lower emotions come to surface.
This seems difficult to go through at the human level,
but it is actually a truly divine process in which the Twin flames get deeply cleansed with each other’s help.
This lets them achieve higher energy levels so that they can ascend in bliss together.

This is also the phase where both twin flames get spiritually enlightened…
This is when they search and find the spiritual reality.
If you’re currently in a Twinflame relationship, you’re probably in this phase (As This is the period of time when you usually begin finding information on this).

What Happens in this Phase –

– Arguments / Fights
This phase brings many arguments and fights.
This happens because the negativity that each partner is carrying within (usually at a subconscious level) comes to surface.
The twin flame will reflect this like a mirror and so you’ll think its in them, when in reality its in you.
This begins the deep cleansing process.

– The blame game
Each twin flame sees their own negativity and clutter in their twin flame.
Also, deep seated fears and frustrations surface.
So you think Its happening because of the other and start blaming each other.
You consciously might not realize it but this is clearing all your clutter which is a good thing.

– The runner and the Chaser.
The arguments and the Blaming causes a lot of confusion (because usually the spiritual process is not understood by the conscious mind, as we are conditioned to trust logic more that feeling)

One twin flame, at this point, takes the role of the ‘Runner’ (which is usually the man)
The Runner tries to avoid the partner and runaway from the relationship.
This happens because the runner doesn’t consciously know what is going on and feels like he’s losing control.

In our defense system we build up huge walls to protect ourselves THIS HAPPENS AS SOON as we meet someone who will help us to repeat our patterns of abuse, abandonment, betrayal, and/or deprivation. his happens because those people feel familiar. Unfortunately in childhood the people whom we trusted the most – were the most familiar – hurt us the most. So the effect is that we keep repeating our patterns and being given the reminder that it is not safe to trust ourselves or other people.

The other twin flame, now, becomes what I call the ‘Chaser’ (usually the woman)
The Chaser is spiritually more aware than the runner at some level and tries to ‘chase’ or ‘run after’ the runner.

The chaser usually wants some sort of commitment at this point. This happens as the chaser subconsciously or consciously wants to get over with this tough phase so that both of them can reunite.

The Chaser is deeply shocked and hurt by the ‘running’ and unexpected behavior of the Runner.

This is when they feel the need to understand what really is happening and so they start searching or reading about it.

This usually leads to the enlightenment of the Chaser.

The Runner becomes spiritually enlightened too, either through the chaser’s conscious effort, Or by receiving a ‘Soul Shock’ when the Chaser gives up and goes away from the Runner Twin-flame.

The Phase gets stretched longer the more the Runner runs.
Ultimately, the runner does return and the Karma is finally fully resolved.

:: Phase Four – The Reunion

This is the phase of the reunion.
This is when the split soul becomes One again.
This happens first at the level of the soul and then in the physical plane (Yes, that’s when you get married, unless, as in rare cases your physical reunion is not a part of the plan)

The reunion happens when both the partners are fully aware of the spiritual reality.

:: Phase Five – Eternal Bliss – Being LOVE

This is the ‘Happily Ever After’ Phase.
Both Twinflames will be fully spiritually aware and enlightened at this time.
There is perfect love and harmony.
The twinflames now enjoy their Sacred love and Intimacy,
and have the power to create whatever they can imagine…

The world truly becomes their canvas… And they paint it with the colors of Love.

At the end of their journey on Earth, They ascend together…
And go on to experience more…
just like they always have…
In other worlds and other planets… In this universe and beyond…
Together, In love, joy, and Peace
Together, In Eternal Bliss…