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Card For Today


Our card for today, Tuesday, June 5th, is taken from the Ascended Masters Oracle Cards – Freedom – “Walk away from restrictions and be free! You have the power and the right to change your life so that you experience more freedom.”

We live in a society where we often feel restricted by what is deemed normal or acceptable. There are certain things we are not supposed to talk about or do if we want to be accepted and have friends. However we place restrictions on each other too. In Canada and the US we are supposed to have freedom of speech and yet there are things we say sometimes that gets taken the wrong way and causes issues. For example today, here in Newfoundland, Canada, we had snow, not much but enough to cover surfaces making them look white and so that also means it’s been rather cold for June. I saw a couple of posts in my news feed on Facebook where people made some complaints about the snow.

I don’t often comment on things, but today I decided to make a comment on one of those posts talking about the snow that said this: “We live in a place where the population isn’t being ravaged by some horrible disease, we don’t have volcanoes erupting causing loss of life or loss of homes, we don’t have a corrupt government killing people, and we don’t have bombs falling from the sky, so if a little snow is all we have to complain about, I think we are doing great!” Well that was a mistake on my part because I guess my comment was somehow taken the wrong way. The person who wrote the original post commented on what I said, saying she wasn’t complaining, and I wrote a reply to her comment stating that what I said wasn’t meant to offend her, but before I could post my reply to her she had deleted my comment and hers so there was nothing for me to reply to. I sent her a private message saying that my comment wasn’t meant to offend her and she wrote back saying “Thank you, no harm done”.

At first I was surprised that she had deleted my comment and then I was hurt, so yes there was harm done. I honestly didn’t see the issue with what I had said. Other people commented on the post talking about the weather in Newfoundland and how it’s supposed to be spring and so on, but she didn’t delete those comments. Maybe I’m being over sensitive here, and a definite lesson learned on my part, but here is the thing. If you post something on Facebook you leave it open for people to make comments, that’s part of being on social media and part of the reason I don’t post much myself on Facebook. Sure I share posts that I like but I don’t post much when it comes to my personal life because frankly it’s nobody’s business. Even with these card readings I do I get blow back from some people and that played a big part in why I took a break from doing the readings for several months.

Perhaps you are all wondering what this has to do with our card Freedom. Don’t we all want to be heard? I have lived most of my life trying to filter what I say because I don’t want to hurt or offend anyone. Now at my age when I finally feel comfortable enough in my own skin and I want to speak my truth while still trying not to hurt or offend anyone, what happened today just took me back to school where I was an outcast for the most part and I hardly spoke to anyone. My beliefs and thoughts are not the “norm”, even in my own circle of family and friends. Everyone around me gets to voice their complaints or their thoughts about things happening in the world but me. I get laughed at when I say something that goes against what everyone else is saying or believing.

There is this show on Netflix called “13 Reasons Why”. It’s about a high-school girl who committed suicide and the reasons why she did it. I’m sure many could relate to what happened to not only her but to other kids in that school. Unless of course you were one of the popular kids, in which case you probably loved school. I probably wouldn’t have watched the show, but my daughter who suffers from anxiety and depression watched it and wanted me to watch it too. One of the things I took from that show is that we all have a voice and we all deserve to be heard and not be ridiculed or shamed for whatever it is we have to say as long as it causes no harm to anyone.

Sometimes I wonder just how far we have come from high-school when I see how we treat each other today as adults. Perhaps when something is said that we don’t understand or don’t like, it might be an idea to talk about it, to open a dialog, instead of shutting someone down because we don’t agree with what was said. We have to give others and ourselves the freedom to be who they, and who we ourselves, truly are. Otherwise we are going to continue to wear masks, pretending to be someone or something we are not so that we can be accepted by our peers. That my friends is not freedom. True freedom is in being who we really are, our authentic selves, and in allowing other people to be who they truly are too without judgment or ridicule because we don’t like or understand who they are. When Jesus said “Love one another”, He didn’t qualify that command with “love them if they are like you, love them if they believe as you do, love them if they are the same color or the same religion”. His command was clear, we are to love each other no matter what our differences may be.

Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~

Love & Light,
Carolyn & My Spirit Team

Artwork taken from the Ascended Masters Oracle Cards, Freedom.


Card For The Weekend


Our card for the weekend, May 19th & 20th is taken from the Goddess Guidance Oracle Cards – Undying Love – “The love you have shared is eternal, regardless of the situation.”

This card is a reminder that no matter who we have loved in our lives, the love we felt and shared never dies. It doesn’t matter if the person left us, hurt us, or was taken from us, love, if it is true love, never really ends. If it does end, then it wasn’t true love to begin with. We can be angry with someone, and we can leave them if the relationship is abusive, but the love we felt for them will never stop. It’s funny how that works.

I have recently ended a 10 year relationship because he lied and cheated, plus there was some emotional and mental abuse involved. I have been mad as heck, as I like to say “spitting mad”, and hurt and sad, but no matter what else I feel I still love him. It doesn’t mean I will go back, I have given him more than enough chances, but now I’m done. I just have to reconcile the fact though that no matter what he did I will always love him.

So that is what this card is referring to. It doesn’t matter who you love, a partner or spouse, a child, a friend, a family member, or even a beloved pet. It doesn’t matter what the current situation is between you, whether they left or you did, whether you are angry at each other, or whether God called them Home, that love lives on and will do so for eternity. True love never dies!

Hopefully this gives some of you some comfort and some peace. Remember though, just because you still love someone who has treated badly doesn’t mean you have to put yourself back in that situation. I had to learn to love myself enough to walk away and shut that door, and when I’m done, I’m done.

Have a great weekend everyone! ~Namaste~

Love & Light,
Carolyn & My Spirit Team

Artwork taken from the Goddess Guidance Oracle Cards, Undying Love.


Don’t Date A Mystic by Allison Nappi


Don’t Date A Mystic
Written by Allison Nappi

“Don’t date a mystic, if you want the life you have. If you are comfortable and cozy, stay away. Whatever you have built around yourself to create comfort: it cannot stand in the blazing fire of a mystical woman.
A mystic is a wild creature. She is made. She is deliberately forged by something mysterious. She is created for a purpose. She spends all her life seeking, for there is nothing else worth doing. She peers and gazes until she falls from the edge of the world, and into the next. Over and over. Each time she returns, she is a little different. What she sees must change her. She dies every day. She is reborn in every moment. Can you even begin to fathom the terror and the faith commanded from such a being? Can you even begin to understand what such a life can do?
Don’t date a mystic, if you want the life you have. If you are comfortable and cozy, stay away. Whatever you have built around yourself to create comfort: it cannot stand in the blazing fire of a mystical woman. She is no trophy. She is no bodily pleasure-maker. She is the seer of souls. She is the womb that births the divine into the flesh and bone of matter.
She doesn’t mean to burn your village to the ground, but she has seen what you are meant to become. You are not a peasant sheering sheep, as you have thought. You are a king dressed in rags who has amnesia. It is her assumption that you have come to be reborn. If you haven’t, turn back now, while the world you know still exists.
If she touches you, and all the voices on the wind go silent, if you feel you are in a snow globe when you embrace her, she is your destroyer. She will destroy the false idol you see in the mirror. She will smash it open because it is your prison. If you wish to stay there, she will shatter you another way. She will leave. A mystic may not for long engage with that which is too small for her, unless she is nurturing a seedling into its destiny. But the seed must be capable of fulfilling it’s own potential.
Everybody wants the magic, but nobody wants the mystery, the schooling: a thing that must be lived in a place where book knowledge has no meaning, for all books are manuals to the world you already know. That means the well-honed intellect–the masculine theory of reason–will not save you, cannot free you. It is for a world whose time is over.
The Mystery, in it’s very nature, must show you what has never been seen, never been written, never been known, because before you were forged, it was impossible. The arts of women have been called the dark arts for too long, and they are the keys to infinity. Infinite form. Infinite being. Infinite life.
The art of far sight.
The art of inner knowing.
The art of sign-reading.
The art of deep feeling.
The art of song and circles.
The art of intuition.
The art of frequency translation.
The healing arts.
The art of kitchen witchery.
The art of communion.
The art of sacred story weaving.
The art of creation and manifestation.
And others too wild to name.
If your dreams are not filled with the Mystery, you are better off with a normal girl, because a mystic will see things that are invisible to you. She will feel things that you cannot feel beneath the layers of numbness you have wrapped yourself in. She will call upon your true self, your real soul, and she will sing it down into you, into herself, and life will never be the same.”

Twin Flames Separation Why It Happens from Spiritual Unite


Twin flames separation is something that can’t be avoided and is meant to happen in most of the twin flame relationships. Apparently, most twin flames relationships are bound to come to a slight pause since its not quite obvious that at the point of meeting they both will be ready for each other.

The reunion is quite strong and would require the twins to be ready for each other i.e be in a position to take care of each other’s souls and in addition, they should have individually learnt some important life lessons such as love, loss, handling of; jealousy and hate etc.

Therefore, when the relationship can’t seem to work, it happens with a reason. It happens that there are key lessons still meant to be learnt and understood before embracing the love meant for the two.

Twin Flames Separation

However much the two of you will have part ways, you are still connected and its just a learning moment for the two of you. You are meant to learn important lessons such as detachment, forgiveness, surrender, grace, inner strength and trust.

Forgiveness will be the greatest lesson you will get to learn since the separation would have been caused by one of you either saying or doing something that hurt the other.

At a point like this, you will definitely miss your twin and you will get to wonder how to cope with such a loss. It will be painful and it would ache your heart but remember its meant to happen. Its meant to teach you something and however much you wish they would be with you its just not the right moment.

Making matters worse, you will have to go through this stage alone as no one will get to understand what you actually feel. You may try explaining yourself to those close to you and trust me the best response you can get is ‘just let go, maybe it was not meant to be.’ But no, don’t listen to them; whatever you had is no ordinary and very few people can come to really understand what you are going through.

Twin flame separation isn’t quite a pleasant ordeal and it will leave you with a string of questions in your head with no real answers and unfortunately it will be a confusing moment for you.

However, with the confusion and uncertainty, the two of you will still be connected in a way. You will still think about each other nearly all of the time and still feel their internal energy. You will get to feel it when they are emotional, upset or even when they will be thinking of you.

Its quite sad to lose someone you had loved and still love with all your heart but remember one thing; its a stage you have to grow through and you are learning something out of it. There may not be exact reasons as to why this is happening, how its going to happen or when it may stop and all you have to do is trust the process and endure the pain.

The whole encounter is meant to grow you and therefore this is a time for you to have your own healing, spiritual growth, recognize your lessons and just be the best version of yourself. Once you are ready, the universe will reunite you once more and this time your love will be unbreakable and divine.


November Energies – Annoyed and physically ill? Here is why….by Vera Ingeborg


High light frequencies keep streaming in and we are headed towards the 11.11 gateway in lightening speed. It seems as if we are getting support by another geomagnetic storm, caused by a huge CME that left a canyon on the sun of 200.000 km length as spaceweather.com reports. It is supposed to hit earth on November 8. If so, this will give us an extra push and more energetic potential to transmute energies quickly. As it was already described in the article about the cleansing finals, the energies are building up very quickly now and we go through a lot of transformation in a very short time. Our systems are overtaxed and we feel like we have left one reality without having fully entered the new one yet. Almost as if we were floating between dimensions. The changes within us happen so fast now, that neither our physical body nor our external reality are able to catch up yet. All of this is causing a feeling of being very annoyed and confused. We feel we have moved forward so much and have done so much inner work. And yet, this still does not feel blissful at all. We are still suffering from intense fatigues and are overwhelmed by all the possibilities we are shown our life could take us to next. So overwhelmed, that we rather just want to ignore it all. Can’t we just get over with the guessing and puzzle game and get a clear sign for once?

No, not yet. The disconnect is important right now. We need it to make the transition into 5D. And we only can do this alone. We need to fully trust our own intuition and need to have mastered self-love and self-confidence to be able to make this shift. Our guides are doing us a favour by not being very present. They know that we have reached a point where we are able to walk through this portal on our own. And it is coming up soon! The energetic gateway has already opened for the huge portal into new beginnings on 11.11. In preparation for it, we already are in a major balancing phase, November 8 is the exact half way between equinox and solstice, a day of balance and harmony. And a tipping point. Letting go of the last bits of 3D energies still hanging around in our energy fields. The super full moon on November 14 will help with these final cleansings. All of what we are experiencing now is the preparation for all the new coming in, which will manifest quicker than ever. How amusing, that November 8 is election day in the US. There are no coincidences. So, if you feel fed up with all that ascension stuff and all the uncertainty, just take some time to look back and see how much has changed and moved forward for you in such a short time. How much you have grown and learned. We tend to forget to appreciate our achievements while we focus on all the construction sites in our life.

Time becomes intangible

For many, time is hardly tangible anymore. Especially for those that have left schedules and routines behind. A past week can feel like a year has gone by because so much is happening at once. Our mind is not able to process all the changes we are going through and is not able to remember or recall things correctly. That is why it thinks that a lot more time must have past by. We have a hard time remembering things from our old 3D life. It feels more like a past life memory and very surreal. We are experiencing the dissolving of linear time, the more we move into the now and understand that this is our only reality. As we drop our fears, the process of aging slows down and gets even reversed. We indeed grow younger. Another reason why the significance of time stops. Without aging, there is no pressure to achieve anything quickly. We have eternity to do so!

Twin Flames feel disconnected and annoyed

For twin flames, energetically this is a very interesting period. Those that have healed their emotional body completely feel very disconnected from their twin. After all this push and pull and having them in their mind 24/7 all of a sudden it is gone. And that seems strange. It is almost like missing the missing. Twins need to get used to the feeling of absolute freedom and authenticity first, after having been attached for such a long time. And the energy feels absolutely flat when twins reach that state of being. In the beginning, it is a swinging in and out of that new state, but when twins embrace that experience, they move into this detachment for good very quickly. When that has happened, they are experiencing that the energetic field is tipping over. The quantum entanglement of both parts is at play. The more female part that has spent the past years with cleansing, purging and healing is now ready to fully step into his/her mission and just move forward without any attachment or longing. And is ready to do this alone. Is even open to the possibility that there might be someone else. But…. Energetically he or she is held back. And that sucks! Why is that? As the energetic field has tipped over, and the masculine is waking up, energetically they are now starting to send signs of “Please, don’t leave me, I still need you”. In parallel, it seems in 3D, that nothing is changing on their side at all. They just seem to continue their 3D life and existence. It is a strange feeling to still be connected to someone in 3D while having left that dimension already. That leads to a feeling of annoyance. Not wanting to deal with the 3D version of your Beloved any longer because you cannot relate to the human drama anymore. The more female part just wants to take off and explore 5D joy and happiness and would be more than happy to share all of this with the 5D version of their counterpart. The one that they had initially met during the bubble love phase. Although this indeed feels annoying right now, that is a very good sign that the energies have entered their final balancing dance. So just keep living your life, trust your process and continue your mission. It will balance and settle quickly now.
Old Wounds and intense Physical Ailments

Old wounds are showing up one more time for those that have not completely healed yet. People feel tired and fed up. Homesickness comes up again, and it is tough for many to keep up the faith that anything will change anytime soon. And the physical body goes nuts for many people. Feeling vertigo, migraines and intense pain down the whole spine as well as blurry eyes and a sore throat are the harmless part. But many are struggling with intense stomach sickness, including throwing up water and a body weakness that feels like a huge flu infection. As it is for all emotional pain and mental spiraling, also for the physical pain it is recommended to embrace it. Know this is your body rebuilding itself and trying to catch up with the rest of your energetic bodies – adapting to the high frequencies. Love your body for being so brave and for supporting you to be able to ascend while inhabiting it. Not everyone will be able to do this and will left behind in 3D frequencies. Of course please do seek medical assistance if you need some peace of mind.

“These are the cleansing finals. The energies are superintense and will shake us up to the core once again.”

My dears – these are the cleansing finals. The energies are superintense and will shake us up to the core once again. This is the only way up into 5D frequencies and being anchored into New Earth for good. Don’t try to push things forward that are not ready for manifestation. You will end up disappointed and will have wasted a lot of energy with little to no result. Follow the energetic pulls you receive. Ground yourself and bravely continue to transmute whatever comes up. If you need some tips for the upcoming days, please check out these tips to become a master alchemist and how to transmute energies quickly.

By Vera Ingeborg.

The texts I share are always based on channelings I receive and/or on experiences of clients and my own. I do not claim what I share to be the ultimate truth. I encourage everyone to only take what resonates to find your own truth and wisdom. As this is universal wisdom, I do not claim any copyright. Please feel free to share this content as long as you keep its message complete so that the meaning does not get twisted. Thank you. With lots of light and love, Vera Ingeborg.


12 Reasons Why Old Souls Have Such A Hard Time Finding Love BY THE EARTH CHILD ADMIN


by Brianna Wiest

1. They have a strong sense of identity.

They know who they are, which means they also know – specifically – what they do and do not want in a partner, what works and what doesn’t. While this is fantastic in terms of being able to choose wisely, it ultimately diminishes their pool of prospects pretty significantly.

2. Left unchecked, their hyper-intuitiveness can wreck relationships.

Often prone to overthinking because of how deeply sensitive they are, their capacity to worry and make assumptions can break relationships that don’t have a perfectly strong foundation.

3. Many are in the throes of twin flame relationships.

They’re attached or are with people who are not their “forever” people, rather, intense connections they’re meant to learn, and rapidly expand, from.

4. They often have a greater purpose that must be attended to first – one that love would distract them from.

They usually have to accomplish quite a bit on their own before they find love – this is because old souls love deeply, and completely. To be given love too soon would keep them from the other important things they are here to do.

5. They will not settle for anything less than soulmate love.

They require a lot more than just a surface-level, “average” relationship. They absolutely will not settle, and sometimes, that means biting the bullet and being alone for longer than what’s “average” as well.

6. While many people can bring them passion, few can bring compatibility.

Because they feel so deeply and others find them so fascinating, it’s easy for them to find infatuation, but to be with someone who is truly their best friend, deepest confidant *and* lover is a challenge.

7. They’re less inclined to go out and meet people in modern ways.

Even if they have nothing against online dating, it doesn’t always come naturally for them, nor does finding a random hookup at a bar or being set up blindly seem appealing.

8. They’re natural healers, and often attract people who need help, not love.

And that attraction is reciprocated. There’s almost nothing that feels better to an old soul than being able to help someone who truly needs it. However, at some point in time, it’s crucial for them to realize that they have to choose a partner, not a student, or a charity case.

9. They dislike the “game.”

Dating is inherently exhausting to an older-spirited person. Feigning disinterest for the sake of looking “cool” or knowing which faux pas other people find off-putting (how long after the first date do you text again?) isn’t instinctive to them, and can stress them out more than they ever find it “fun.”

10. Their standards are sky-high.

They expect a lot from themselves, so likewise, they expect a lot from their partners. While this is a great thing, it’s another quality that has to be kept in check: it’s more important to be able to accept the qualities that aren’t deal-breakers than it is to just write a person off because they’re imperfect.

11. They have baggage.

People who developed their inner selves quickly did so for a reason: they had to cope, they had to grow, or they had to learn from some challenging experiences that life set up for them. While this is a great thing on its own, unresolved issues can often re-manifest in close relationships.

12. They feel fear as intensely as they feel love.

The degree to which they love something is proportionate to how much they fear losing it, or not being “good enough” for it. They don’t just love intensely, they feel everything else intensely, too, and sometimes, that gets in the way of the really good things in front of them.






When a man chooses a woman who follows her calling, his only chance to maintain the connection is in following her… and above all in creating space for her to follow her own path.

It may happen that he needs to abandon his own neediness, or that he finds a means of healing through their common path – but not in the gentlest manner.

When a man chooses a woman who heals the collective wounds of the women by following her calling, his Yes for her equals a Yes to a bigger purpose far beyond building a house or raising children. Their connection goes beyond fulfilling the classical gender role models.

For this man accepts the job of having the back of this woman, of catching her when she cannot transform the pain of the world anymore. It means for him to welcome a different form of sexuality, since healing on the level of sexuality is one of the most profound issues of the woman who needs to become a healer.
For him this, again, is about welcoming slowness, softness and healing – about holding back or redirecting his own drive… about being present for the whole.

Because when a man chooses a woman who aims for freedom, they can only achieve this together… and by him leaving his narcissistic aspects behind and recognizing the path of the woman as his own path towards freedom.

When a man chooses a woman who is bigger, he cannot dwell in the places of energies of oppression or of playing small. He – if he chooses to take on this mission with her – accepts a task serving the well-being of all men, even though it happens in the background. Within this background he creates space of security, of keeping her safe from an ambush bred by his own old wounds, driving her into submission.

When a man chooses a woman out of his fascination with her radiance and wisdom, it must be obvious to him that he cannot be stuck within his own deficits in a way that makes him want to diminish her radiance… purely out of fear of having to share her with others.

When a man chooses a woman who follows her calling, he cannot fear these words: respect, humility and surrender. He will rather walk the path of divinity – alongside his woman, the healer – with gratitude and an overflowing heart.

For such a woman will choose – if she ever needs to choose – in favour of the well-being of all women …and she will choose walking her path alone instead of leaving it for him. Nevertheless, she is aware of the power that lies in the presence of a man who is beating the drums… for her.

~ Moksha Devi Sunshine